Anyone break up prior to finding out you're preg?

[Mom2Brielle]

Broke up with my ex about a wk before I found out I was pregnant. He's been seeing another girl and when we talked today about our plans for the baby, he insinuated he wants me to get an abortion.

Do you think he will change over the course of my pregnancy or build resentment for keeping a child he doesn't want? Appreciate your responses

[AnnieBrooke]

I would not let him off the hook for child support.  Talk to a lawyer.

[danaysita]

Well i think u should let him know u will keep the baby cuz even u broke he still the father...but honey u strong enouhg to do this by yourself isnt easy but u can...he can be envolved if he wan and doenst mean he have to be with u if he do t wanna but i believe in oportunities and this one can be a good one for ur life....think about it ....lets talk if u wan

[TankNtray]

I'm 38 weeks now when I was 32 weeks my child's father kicked me out of his apartment after moving in with him. he didn't care about where I went  or the well-being of my child. so I feel that he doesn't need to be in our life.. I moved on with me and my little man life and not looking back.. as abMother we must what's best for our children. Member will be men and boys will be boys.  There's always something better out there just stay positive

[james_zaira]

Do everything you have yo do for you and your little bean. I think he will change his mind tho is this his first child? even if he doesn't that doest mean you can't love your child, en are so quick to say abortion.

[Mom2Brielle]

True. Thanks for that

[lkaykirk]

If you need to talk message me!

[lkaykirk]

Honestly if you want to baby keep then keep baby and don't let him know things. If he doesn't want the baby then tell him he doesn't have to and you will raise the baby. If he changes his mind then he does. But if not you don't have high hopes.