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BF may have slightly ejaculated inside..

Hello, I wasn't sure where exactly to post this so sorry mods if it is in the wrong section.

Opinions please:
My boyfriend and I had sex last Sat and Sunday. While the condom was off at one point, he pulled out because he said he was 'too close' (to ejaculating inside me).

Now he thinks he did not but he said it felt like he almost did close enough to ejaculating, that he is nervous a minuscule amount of ejaculate or possibly 'pre-***' leaked out while he was still inside of me. At that time (Sat and Sunday) it was 8 days from when my last period finished. I am 33 and feel quite fertile.. He is 30 and thinks he's fertile too.

So it's been 4.5 days since Saturday. How big of a risk does a professional think I am of becoming pregnant? Percentage and likelyhood if possible? I suppose plan b is not quite too late? I was thinking maybe plan b or of just eating foods like Parsley, cotton root bark, angelica, etc that help 'not conceive' as he and I are simply not ready for a baby. We know we should have been more responsible..
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I AM NO PROFESSIONAL BE YOU CAN BECOME PREGNANT FROM PRE*** NO MATTER THE AMOUNT ALL IT TAKES IS ONE "LUCKY" SPERM TO DO THE TRICK NO MATTER IF IT YOUR FIRST, SECOND OR FIFTY TIME HAVING SEX!! HOW LONG DOES YOUR PERIOD TYPICALLY LAST? IF YOUARE 8 DAYS FORM WHEN YOUR LAST PERIOD FINISHED THEN YOU ARE ROUGHLY IN YOUR FERTILE PERIOD. AS I HAVE A 5 DAY PERIOD. MY PERIOD STARTED ON APRIL 27TH AND LASTED UNTIL MAY 1ST. MY FERTILE WINDOW WILL BE FROM MAY 9TH UNTIL MAY 15 0R 16TH. WITH MY OVULATION DAY BEING ON OR AROUND MAY 10TH WHICH IS CYCLE DAY 14.  IF YOU HAVE A REGULAR CYCLE YOU NORMALLY OVULATE 2WKS BEFORE YOUR NEXT PERIOD. WITH THAT BEING SAID YOU ARE PROBABLY IN YOUR WINDOW. I HOPE I WAS ABLE TO HELP
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Hi lisa.they said the morning after pill could be taken a week after the time and still work...
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Hi Lisa, you do have a big chance of getting pregnant some woman who are very fertile, even with the first thing that comes out before the sperm could be enough to  get you pregnant, and no plan B pill only works 42 to 48 hours after having unprotected sex, after 48 hours it won't work anymore
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Hi Lisa I am a nurse and am currently on baby num2. You do have a high chance at becoming pregnant but every woman's body is different. Pre*** is how a lot of women become pregnant myself included. It is the same thing as him fully ejaculated. But I would work so much until a week after you next cycle is due. Hope this helps
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Hi. I'm currently pregnant with baby number 2 and it's from pre *** lol. I happened to be that 1 percent that it happens to. He pulled out.. and I still got pregnant!! So if you're not pregnant from this time..... and don't want to be.. I highly recommend keeping that condom on or birth control !!!
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My period is also 5 days typically. Yep Sat and Sun was in my ovulation window. Thank you girls for all the sound advice and thoughtful helpfulness! I am feeling better with the communication receieved. I don't think I'm pregnant but am going to take the pill anyway.. BF said he feels like we are fine but agrees. We are both going to be more aware of my cycle and communicative if something like this happens again.. We did talk about kids recently but both of us are so busy sometimes and don't even live in the same town/city as each other at the moment.

Thanks all of you xoxo
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Not everyone is the same im 19 with my second child and for both of them i got pregnant next week of having sex some people take long getting pregnant some dont i think you should just keep cheking like going to the doctor they the only one who could tell you for sure
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Hey it took me and my partner about 8 months of no prevention to get pregnant, of course it can happen but unlikely. My partner and I used the pullout method for about 3 years but my partner could control himself well and I trusted him to pullout each time. If your man can't mabey you should look at another contraceptive, there is also the morning after pill for furture.
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Thank you! I appreciate you sharing your knowledge and experience.
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Im 19 on baby number 2 and all though every woman is different it took me and my fiance a complete year to get pregnant with our first. We were not trying as i was only 17 and still in high, but we did no form of preventing. As he would not wear a condom or pull out. After 13 months or so we found out we were expecting. Now at 19 and on baby number 2 it was almost the exact same thing. After a year of no prevention we are expecting again. Needless to say i doubt you are expecting from one time and not an actual ejaculation but im no doctor just speaking from experience.
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