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I found out I was pregnant about a month ago now, and I had no idea how far along I was. I initially didn't want to get rid of the baby but my partner did, he wants to be more stable and even though I say I think we can work it out, he disagrees..

He currently had a young child with another women which has gone dramatically wrong, they struggled and he is basing how hard it was at first with when they got on.

However, at the moment all we do in our relationship is argue about a lot of things. And I am starting to think that doing the thing I disagree with, might be the best thing for the baby, I don't think this is the correct environment to bring a child in, where all we do is argue at the moment, I know it's unfair for the baby. And I know I would try my hardest to try and make it work, but at the end of the day I need to put the baby first...

I need your opinions, my life at the moment is not stable, what would you do
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I take it you are considering adoption?  There is sure a need for healthy babies in the world of trying-to-adopt couples who can't have a baby.  Would your boyfriend agree to that?
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