Before I met my now husband, I got pregnant and had a boy in my teens.
After being with my husband a while we got pregnant. He was never there for me. He did not once go to a doctor's appointment, he didn't want to be involve with anything. I had zero support from him. My LO is now 11 months old.
I'm pregnant again. But this time, husband is very vocal about his feelings. He is angry. He tells me the only option I have is abortion or adoption. Which is understandable, we struggle significantly financially and both of us already have our fair share of health related problems.
Personally, abortion seems to be the best option for me, but we are so poor to even have one and travel a great distance. And giving a child up for adoption seems to be a very diffult thing to do. If I choose to carry a baby for 9 months, feeling the kicks, losing sleep, in pain for this baby I personally would want to keep it. It's a mothers instinct.
Only positive and helpful comments please. This is a serious life decision in which I have no one to speak to. Thanks.