Hello. My son is 2 1/2 years old and is extremely hyperactive. From the moment he wakes up in the morning until he goes to bed at night he is "on the go" as my husband and I call it. He has pretty much been like this since he was able to walk. He doesn't listen when being told to do things, he dosesn't respond to time out or any sort of discipline. I thought that it was just a 2 year old thing or even a boy thing, but now it seems to be interfering in other things. I am a stay-at-home-mom so I am always with him. We have what I call an "arts and crafts" time every morning after breakfast... during this time we color, draw pictures, make signs for daddy, ect. During this time he throws the crayons across the room, ripes the paper up, ect. I can not get him to concentrate at all. Then during the afternoons if its nice outside we will go to the park or take a walk. This is another ordel. He doesn't socialize well with the other children, he is yelling and trying to push them over. I feel like I am constantly apoligizing to the other mothers for his behavior. On days when it isn't nice outside, I put in a movie for him and he can't even sit still for 5 mins during it. He is up and down off of the couch, picking up his toys and throwing them around the room, running up and down the stairs. I put him it time out when things get really out of control for 2 1/2 mins, then explain to him what he did and that that type of behavior is unexceptable and he will go right back to doing it. He goes back into time out again and again and again with the same results everytime. Now within the last week he is refusing to eat. He will eat a little bit and then starting throwing the food off of his plate, turning his cup over to spill his milk on the floor, hitting whoever is sitting next to him. I have repeatedly took him out of his chair and into time out and again nothing works. I am at my wits end. His doctor says that he is definintely showing signs of adhd and probably needs to be on medication. I DO NOT want him on medication!! I am scared and tired and not sure what to do. Is there a natural way to make this better?? I tried adjusting his diet. He only drinks milk and water. I make him healthy foods for all of this meals - not that he really eats them anymore. He doesn't eat sugary snacks. Any advice would be soooo helpful.