keep yourself together, sadly because of hormonal imbalance we all -ALL!- go through this, you can do this! keep busy, that helped me keep the bblues abay and instead of concentrating on how you are not spending time with your older, find a way - a quick hug, a bedtime story/ song,
considering little is only 5 days old ,pleaaaaaase give yourself time to adjust, you will do great
I wish I could help, I'm being induced on the 5th with my second and I'm already crying every night thinking about how she wont understand what's happening & I won't get to devote my time to her. At least you're not alone?
I have a two year old and going through the exact same thing my daughter isn't handling it to well and it hurts to see her sad and also my new born is five days old as well. I'm just crying all the time and trying to stay positive and know it isn't forever
I'm feeling alot better now! Things are coming together! It's not easy but it's not as bad as I was making it to be lol! Everyone was right.. I just needed to give myself sometime to heal and I did. Baby blues are just about completely gone and me and things aren't exactly the same as they use to be with me and my daugbter but we spend our time together just me and her and we make it work. She's a great big sister besides the occasional constant messing with him lol but she just wants to help is all and that's what makes her great lol. Thanks to everyone who gave me their advice. I really appreciate it and you where right lol and to anyone worried about this I promise it gets better just give it some time!