12 days late

[chrisbee181]

Hi i am just alittle worried i am 12 days late my partner and i are trying to concieve but have had problems, i started spotting 6 days after i was due on but not enough to put a pad in ive also had tummy cramps, sore breast and now discharge, i have done a test but it was negative, any ideas???????????????????????? thanks

[ali116]

thanks for the advice. i try to relax and not think about it really i do but 2 months ago i found out i have a 2" cyst on my left ovary  and that did not help things out  the pain went away and they are suposed to check it again in dec.. but i always get my period every 28 days so now that it is 2 weeks late i want to know what the heck is going on...this all started when i was on DEPO  i got off because of the warnings of bone loss my mother had (ostio perrosis) and died at the age of 66. worried and i cant run to mom to go ask.

[Bubbbles]

Hang in there honey... Sometimes when you're really anxious about having another baby, your body reacts and you might even be working against getting your period.  Try not to think about it, (I know it will be hard) go for walks and keep your mind busy, if the preg. test shows negative, then most likely you're not.. (as it shows that there is not enought HCG hormones which by now should be sky rocketing.)
Relax and don't try to conceive, just enjoy sex and the next thing you know, you'll be pregnant!

[ali116]

i have been cramping with no bleeding for the past week or so and when i called the dr for an appointment i told them that i had tested at home, so i dont know why they would do another urin test..but they did another one(-_ of corse. and then they gave me another appt. for fri to do another one they say if i dont get my period( the dr. says that itaf is comming)they will do another urin test. i am 11 days late now. i am really having a hard time with this because i really want another child.. we have been trying for months now and this is the closest we have gotten. trying not to get too excited.so not to be dissapointed.   ali 26yr. old.

[brandyw725]

i guess were all in the same boat im 8 days late and i have all the symptoms and ill cramp a lil like im gonna start but nothing happens,i've tok 2 tests they came up neg,but i took them in the afternoon,but if anybody has more advice....

[ali116]

well i went to the dr. the did another urin test and it was neg so they told me to come back in one week to test again if i dont get my period... still no period though...  we will see crossing my fingers and praying.

[Mandy725]

Nothing yet for me....

[ali116]

no more spotting for me..just alot of clear??? no af yet dr appt tommorw though. well see hope everything works out for all of you

[Mandy725]

I have a bad feeling that I'm going to start soon. I dont know if you guys can smell when it's coming (sorry if TMI) But I smell a change...

DANGIT.

[chrisbee181]

think ive got my perod now 14 days late still very light but got a clot?????????

[ali116]

hey im in the same boat as you guys.i am 8 days late now and cramping but no bleeding clearish discharge,sore brests & tired. at the end of the day cramping hurts more than in the morning. i have been trying to concieve also, for several monts now and had problems.( cyst on left overy) we really want another child my third his first. tested and it cane out neg(-) again. i have a dr. appointment tommorow i hope they have good news for me. but we will see.

[Mandy725]

Nothing! Dangit.

I took a hpt test yesterday too. Negative.

I am having some mild aches in my belly- nothing like pms cramps though. More like a bloated feeling that doesnt go away.

I'm gonna wait it out til Monday- and then go see a Dr.

[chrisbee181]

Hello mandy i started spotting again last night thought i was coming on but have stopped again how about you?

[Mandy725]

I'm no help. I'm in the same boat you are. Except I've had no bleeding and no soreness. Keep me posted on what goes on with you, k? All my hpts say neg too.. and I'm now 11 days late.