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2nd tome sex after 2 year
hello everyone,,,plzz help me and try to solve my problem im so worry,,,problem iz that,,i had sex wid my boyfrnd abt 14 months ago,,and i bleed first time alot,,now i have going to marry after 6 mnths,,,i wanna ask tht may i bleed 2nd time after a long time not having sex or not,,my vagina goes very very tight,,,,i afraid tht if i were not bleed thn my hsbnd got know abt my first sex,,,plz plz help me in thz queestion..
You might not bleed. But don't worry a lot of women break their hymen in sports, gymnastics or even masterbation.
Some women don't bleed the first time or ever, actually! Some bleed the first few times or more; it depends on the individual woman and her body. Since you did it only once and it has been a long time, you may well bleed again. If your then-husband thinks women do always bleed the first time and isn't good about listening when you explain things, he may not believe that it's your first time.
Some people would say to just tell him you had sex before, but I'm guessing you have a good reason for not telling him; that's your choice, so here's an idea to help things go smoothly if he does doubt that it's the first time. You could get a book from the library, or print from online, information about the first time a woman has sex and that she doesn't always bleed and bring it with you on the honeymoon. It should make sense to him that you're nervous and read about it to feel less scared about the sex.
If he's a kind, loving man, your word-- and that that information, if he questions your word-- should be enough. If you're worried because he isn't always so kind and loving and you think he'll treat you badly or hurt you, it would be a good idea to talk about that with a doctor or counselor before getting married.
I hope your wedding and honeymoon are perfect!
Some people would say to just tell him you had sex before, but I'm guessing you have a good reason for not telling him; that's your choice, so here's an idea to help things go smoothly if he does doubt that it's the first time. You could get a book from the library, or print from online, information about the first time a woman has sex and that she doesn't always bleed and bring it with you on the honeymoon. It should make sense to him that you're nervous and read about it to feel less scared about the sex.
If he's a kind, loving man, your word-- and that that information, if he questions your word-- should be enough. If you're worried because he isn't always so kind and loving and you think he'll treat you badly or hurt you, it would be a good idea to talk about that with a doctor or counselor before getting married.
I hope your wedding and honeymoon are perfect!
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