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Any chance of pregnancy from fingering?

Honestly, I feel a bit silly posting this...but I'm really scared. I'm 19 years old and have always told myself (since I was a little girl) that I would wait 'til marriage for sex. I've told my boyfriend and it's something that we both believe in, so we don't have sex...we do other things. Is there any possibility that I can get pregnant from him fingering me? If he ejaculated, touched himself, and then fingered me not immediately after...is there any way I can be pregnant? I was supposed to get my period 4 days ago and it's still not here. I feel all the symptoms I normally feel before my period....but it hasn't arrived and I've heard that period symptoms and pregnancy symptoms can be easily confused. To tell you the truth, I'm scared to death and would just like to know if there is any possibility of pregnancy. Thank you so much.
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me and my boyfriedn done the same thing... and it has been on my mind alot latly... worndering if i was Pregent or nt...... i just shure hope i aint.... :'(

and after my boyfriend fingered me i had spots of blood... s i wornder if he poped my cherry cuz i did bleed but nt that much...but i dnt recall any blood on his hands???? .
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2069513 tn?1331349243
me and my boyfriedn done the same thing... and it has been on my mind alot latly... worndering if i was Pregent or nt...... i just shure hope i aint.... :'(

and after my boyfriend fingered me i had spots of blood... s i wornder if he poped my cherry cuz i did bleed but nt that much...but i dnt recall any blood on his hands????
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My boyfriend fingered me on Saturday and I felt no pain. Then we were dry humping and he never once touched his penis. Sunday, the next day i saw little spots of blood. And then Monday I spotted a lot and had some brown discharge. Tuesday, everything was gone and i started ovulating? what would cause the brown discharge and blood ?
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Ok my last period was on feb 2 n I got fingered n touched on feb 8 n he did touch himself but he waited for a very while before he touched me inside really deep is there a possible chance I can get prego? I'm only 15 n scared as hell n well he did clean himself with tissue too.. Plz help
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I am so happy there are still people alive who appreciate the "waiting til marriage" idea. I am 21 and my boyfriend is 25, we have been one year together already- and we are both virgins! All with the help of God 'cause it's hard.  yay! so happy I came across your post :)
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To those who think they might be pregnant from dry fingering: Relax, take a warm bath/shower, stress can delay your period (It has happened to me several times)

Those who are concerned from starting on a BCP or took an emergency contraceptive and having weird feelings: It's entirely possible your hormones are just trying to figure out what's going on. I started on BCP Last year, had no period from november to mid-january, and then had a second period a week after.

It is perfectly normal to be concerned in this situation, and to all those who STILL think they might be pregnant, see a doctor if it will comfort you. The most common signs of pregnancy are the late/missed period WITH other symptoms such as bloated feeling, intense abdominal pains (a sign of periods as well), and tenderness in the breasts -- keep an eye on if the colour is changing around the nipple if you REALLY think you're pregnant and haven't checked yet.

I have had a few times where I've thought I might be pregnant, and this is WHILE we're using a condom and the pill. The best way to avoid pregnancy is to abstain from any sort of sexual contact, but I know not everyone is willing to do the whole "nothing until marriage" bit. (Honestly, I waited until I found the right guy that I would likely spend my life with before any level of intimacy, kissing included.)

Sperm is unlikely to still be able to impregnate you if it has been exposed to air or water for more than a minute, so all of you concerned that the stuff on his hands might get you pregnant: Stay calm, relax, and your period should come.

@Mariaah12: It is UNLIKELY you would be pregnant and ONLY if any fingering occurred after her touched your V. If you're seriously concerned, look up the full symptoms (or read a bit up in this post), and if yu still think you're pregnant take a test or see your doctor.
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