Cannot Climax

[jess019]

i accidentally found out the way to climax when i was in high school while me and my friends ride on those barriers next the stairs . I can only climax when i ride on similar objects like a pole or something.I feel good when i keep my legs straight and closed. (I know some of you must think im kind of freak but i just want to be honest and find out my problem). Now im in a relationship for 3 years and i have never climax during clitoral stimulation or intercourse. My partner is very good and we tried a lot of things. I do feel excited and turned on. but it never made me climax. I read many tips that help women to climax. none of them works for me.Does anyone have similar problem ?Thanks guys

[SeriousSam]

Actually the way you prefer is not so terribly unusual.  However not knowing weights etc. I can't really guess regarding too many situations, however.  Assuming respective physical conditions allow have you tried.

A)  Not having penetration or after penetration having  sex with him while your legs are together moving his penis through your vaginal lips across your clitoris but not actually penetrating.

B) Try the above with penetration.

[D_Lady_D]

or even  oral sex ?

[D_Lady_D]

have your boy friend tried to find you G spot since you dont care to masturbate?    

[jess019]

Thanks for the reply D_Lady_D, yes, we have tried different positions. and i have tried to masturbate.  i dont feel particularly good.dont know if i should go to see a doctor.

[D_Lady_D]

you need to find your  G spot yourself  which means  you need to masterbate.   Once you find it teach your partner where it is.  Have  you all tried different positions?