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Likihood of pregnancy in a rather extreme situation
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months. We mutually decided it would be okay for us to grope each other (handjob/fingering). When she was giving me a handjob, some pre-*** seaped thru my underwear (she put her hand between my penis and underwear). Later on, I accidentally wiped my finger across the point where my underwear was wet with precum. I then wiped my finger onto my bedsheets for a second or so to get it off. I waited a minute before fingering her again. She's still a virgin. What are her chances of being pregnant?
If it makes a difference, her period ended 1 day before this.
If it makes a difference, her period ended 1 day before this.
Any sexual activity may result in pregnancy or STDS, if your not ready to deal with that possiblity then I'd suggest u refrain from the activity. Birth control could help u from being soo paranoid.
I'm just looking for more perspectives and if others may be incorrect/misinformed or missing details.
You're only going to get the exact same answer over and over. Yes it's possible. Is it likely? No. If you're this concerned about the chance, I strongly advise you to not continue any form of sexual activity as you do not seem prepared for the consequences they involve.
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You are well named, amitoo. I have heard (and this is simply anecdotal) that a couple urinations is enough, but that question, you really have to get googling to ask. Google Cowper's Gland, and pre-ejaculatory fluid, and "is pre-ejaculatory fluid sterile?" and see where you get.
If I did ejaculated the day before and urinated 3 long times before our session, does that change anything?
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Your chances are slim, but not none. It depends on whether you happened to have ejaculated beforehand (before the event you described) and didn't have much time elapse or go pee before doing the activity. If that were so, say you had masturbated beforehand, then there could be sperm in your pre-ejaculatory fluid. Even then, there would be only a slim chance that you transmitted it on your finger, since exposure to air will kill sperm. If some sperm were alive in a microscopic droplet of semen that was still on your finger, and you inserted it into her vagina, they would have to be lottery-winning lucky sperm to make the swim up her vaginal fluids and then find an egg. If, indeed, there was an egg. If it was the day after the last day of her period, say, Day 6 of her cycle, you would not be entirely protected there, since sperm can live up to 5 days in the woman's body once they reach the friendly environment of the cervical mucus and swim in. It is not unusual at all for a woman to ovulate between days 8 and 12 of her cycle. Probably the reason nobody gave you all this detail is that the chances of any of those things are slim, and the chances of all of them together are very slim. There probably in the history of the world is someone who got pregnant by fingering, but it is not the most usual thing to have happen.
Keep your hands clean if fingering, for her vagina's health's sake, as well as the rarefied possibility of transmission of sperm.
Good luck to you both.
Keep your hands clean if fingering, for her vagina's health's sake, as well as the rarefied possibility of transmission of sperm.
Good luck to you both.
Chances are slim to none. She wasn't in her fertail state plus it's not all that likely to get pregnat by pre-***.
So i'd say your safe for now.
Just if something like this happens again wash yours first or something, just to be safe.
So i'd say your safe for now.
Just if something like this happens again wash yours first or something, just to be safe.
chances are very slim sperm cant live unless there at body tem so you should be fine and it doesnt matter if shes a virgin or not
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