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Could a large penis cause damage during intercourse
I recently started a sexual relationship with my friend who has a extremely thick and large penis. I enjoy intercourse with him however feel some discomfort (pain actually) when grinding him during the height of sexual intercourse. The pain is caused by the size of the penis moving inside me, could his cause me any permanent damage to by vagina. It almost feels like the grinding movement is pulling my whole vaginal cavity out of place. Thank you for your time in answering this question for me.
Egad. I am reading these responses and shiver to think few use common sense. As a somewhat endowed male two of my ex lovers ended in the hospital, one losing an ovary. When you have a large penis, a small vagina, gosh what do you think will happen, especially when things get rough, with pounding, grinding, etc. Have a talk with a prostitute. This is a big problem . It one of the big problems in the business. Once those organs and parts are damaged, it could prevent ever having children. Girls that go to Jamaica for a sex fling vacation, are really doing themselves much harm.
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My hope would be that a large man s you describe would be aware and not 'pound' or hurt a woman. Most women CAN get used to a well endowed man as our vaginas are made to stretch (we have babies and all . . . ). But if a couple is not compatible because sex hurts, then they shouldn't be together. It is on a woman to speak up if it hurts and a man to know his potential to do the damage you speak of and to be mindful to go slow and stop if she says to stop. But generally, women are built to accommodate.
You need to talk to him and explain he needs to go slow
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True that!
Natasha you have to check to see if you have enlarge fibroids also they will also make u bleed large clogs
Natasha you have to be careful when u have sex with his penis brain so large he can cause your bladder to go prolapsed, I had that problem years ago and I had to have surgery. And to this day I haven't got any better. But go to a gynecologist
And let him know that it hurts when u have intercourse and u might need a lubricant k2 jelly to help out. Lucky u that have found what alot of us can't get
Make sure you use the bathroom before u have sex
it helps alot feel better
And let him know that it hurts when u have intercourse and u might need a lubricant k2 jelly to help out. Lucky u that have found what alot of us can't get
Make sure you use the bathroom before u have sex
it helps alot feel better
be gentle, sex shouldnt hurt, if it does thats a sign in itself. lubricate and find other ways in which to position yourself so that you dont have to have the whole entire penis inside you. if you know what i mean :) if your on top you can kinda control how much your getting. hope this helps.
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Don't get on top, it will put more pressure and hurt more. Try different positions that give both of you control over pressure so it's easier for you to stop him.
Hi, I also started seeing someone with a rather thick penis and being a person who likes rough sex, I'm not sure if the bleeding was caused by being too rough or because of his size. I also have mild hypochondria about this and I was worried whether or not I caught an STD like chlamydia or something. I've always used a condom though, should I get tested ?
Hi, I haven't had sex in a few months and recently started having sex again with a man who was larger than I was used to and in the middle of it we realized I began to bleed and now I have a lot of pain and pressure in my abdomen. I have ovarian cysts but was put on the pill to shrink them. Could my cysts or his size be the reason I started to bleed?
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If you are on prescribed medication, look at the side effects of the meds. Can it make vaginas more dry? or more delicate? If so, you might need to find a more natural medication or one without those side-effects. At any rate, you should talk to whomever prescribed it. Call them up, tell them what has happened. They may tell you to discontinue immediately. Best regards.
There is a risk that having sex with over length and size penis can cause cervix cancer. During sex the penis knocks against the ovary wall and the impact could results in injury. It may bleed but you don't feel it because of the excitement. Iam very sorry to comment this but think about how true and false it may be. Good Luck.
Hi,
Do no worry it happes frist time.I suggest u to use oil or lubricant during intercourse.It will be in routine after doing a some time.
Tca 55 can u tell me ur height as well as height of ur friend.
Take enjoy but slowly and comfortabby.
Do no worry it happes frist time.I suggest u to use oil or lubricant during intercourse.It will be in routine after doing a some time.
Tca 55 can u tell me ur height as well as height of ur friend.
Take enjoy but slowly and comfortabby.
I don't think it can do alot of damage as the penis can only go in so far. The most important thing, as you've probably already heard, is foreplay. Make sure you are relaxed and he spends a long time on it, making sure you are sopping wet.
If plenty of foreplay still doesn't make things any easier, use a lubricant. Just make sure it isn't one that's going to damage a condom, if that's the contraception you use.
When you go in, start off gently. If you push too hard or force it, it can be painful for her - maybe not too painful immediately but it will be sore and irritated for several days. Damage in this way, aside from disrupting your sexual relationship and causing discomfort to her, can also make her, and by extension you, more susceptible to yeast infection! So be careful.
You'll find that once you've got into it, everything will work fine. Just make sure you aren't going in too far, if this seems to cause her discomfort. Some positions are better for this than others. It might be best to let her control this aspect.
Oh, and don't listen to the "if it'll fit a baby it'll fit a penis" line. that's rubbish, who wants to go through that pain every day?
Good luck! And sorry for the essay!
If plenty of foreplay still doesn't make things any easier, use a lubricant. Just make sure it isn't one that's going to damage a condom, if that's the contraception you use.
When you go in, start off gently. If you push too hard or force it, it can be painful for her - maybe not too painful immediately but it will be sore and irritated for several days. Damage in this way, aside from disrupting your sexual relationship and causing discomfort to her, can also make her, and by extension you, more susceptible to yeast infection! So be careful.
You'll find that once you've got into it, everything will work fine. Just make sure you aren't going in too far, if this seems to cause her discomfort. Some positions are better for this than others. It might be best to let her control this aspect.
Oh, and don't listen to the "if it'll fit a baby it'll fit a penis" line. that's rubbish, who wants to go through that pain every day?
Good luck! And sorry for the essay!
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Have you had a baby or babies? If so, I suppose a very large penis could displace the uterus if the muscles are not doing the greatest job of holding it in place. (I'm thinking of the kind of thing that sometimes leads to uterine prolapse, not the sex I mean, but the weakening of the uterine support muscles. The muscle issue that sometimes women wear a pessary for.) If you haven't had babies, is there any possibility that you are just swelling up because of the wear and tear associated with sex with such a big guy, and what you are feeling is swollen tissue?
In any case, I think I'd go see a doctor.
In any case, I think I'd go see a doctor.
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