NEED ADVICE ON CONDOMS!!!

[chicolove]

HI EVERYONE WELL IM A LITTLE NEW TO THIS BUT HERE I GO. ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAD SEX ABOUT 2 WEEKS AGO ON THE 24 AND 25TH OF NOVEMBER WELL ANYWAYS WE USED A CONDOM BOTH TIMES AND WE EVEN CHECKED IT TO SEE IF THEY WERE RIPPED OR SOMETHING WELL I GET SO PARANOID THAT I MIGHT BE PREGNET IM A LITTLE SCARED BECAUSE I WANT TO DO THINGS RIGHT GET MARRIED AND FINISH MY NURSING PROGRAM I JUST TURNED 18 AND EVEN THOUGH WE USED PROTECTION WITH SPERMACIDE CONDOMS IM A LITTLE WORRIED I NEED ADVICE.

[jaxabelle]

chances are that if you checked the condomn for any breaks and also used a spermicide, that you should not be pregnant, but i can totally understand how you feel. if you're really scared, then i guess the only way to find out is to do an at home pregnancy test. if you are super worried about becoming pregnant/have unprotected sex/the condomn broke, you can always take the emergency contraceptive pill within 72 hours of having sex (i know this doesn't help much since that was 2 weeks ago) > < i wish i had some better advice for you. good luck!

[jenniferolivebridge]

why not go to the doctor and get a back up form of birth control like the pill or the patch? if you are so paranoid then double up on the protection.

[chicolove]

WELL THANKS FOR UR ADVICE I MEAN I KNEW  ABOUT THAT PILL BUT I DIDENT TAKE IT BECAUSE THATS ONLY FOR WEN U HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX OR WEN IT RIPS WELL THAT DIDENT HAPPEN TO US BUT IM STILL SO WORRIED I GET PARANOID EVERYTIME I HAVE SEX  THIS IS THE 4TH TIME I HAVE HAD SEX SO I DONT REALLY NO NOTHING ABOUT IT NEITHER DOES MY BOYFRIEND WE BOTH WERE VIRGINS TO ITS HARD TO TELL.WELL I THINK I WOULD HAVE KNOWN IF THE CONDOM BROKE I MEAN IM PRETTY SURE IT DIDENT BUT LIKE I SAID I GET PARANOID

[chicolove]

AFTER THIS IF IM NOT IM GOING TO GET ON BIRTH CONTROL TRUST ME BUT EVEN THEN I THINK I WOULD STILL BE PARANOID LOL I KNOW ITS SILLY BUT ITS JUST A TEMPORARY THING.

[Sliga]

Definetely get on Birth control..more if you are such a worrier lol I was like that too!...now I always thought condoms breaking naaaaa not me! only to other girls that I always seemed to read their posts "the condom broke" but trust me it happens more often that I thought! it happened to me, it broke!...it's definetely better to know you are protected other ways too in case that happens to you you'll know you had the second protection of the pill.
very happy to hear that you wanna get married first and finish your career that's awesome! =)

[spade22]

Trust me - you would know if the condom broke!  It doesnt sound like you have anything to worry about :)

I think using two forms of protection is a GREAT idea!  You, young lady, are setting a great example here.

[chicolove]

WELL I THINK I STARTED MY PERIOD TODAY BUT IM NOT SURE IF ITS A LITTLE SPOTTING OR WHAT WELL IM CRAMPING, CRAVING CHOCOLATE AND HAVE HURTING BREAST SIMPTOMS OF A PERIOD AND WELL WHAT DO U PEEPS THINK I SHOULD DO TAKE A PREG TEST ANYWAYS I NEED ADVICE THIS IS A LITTLE WEIRED TO ME.THANKS

[chicolove]

IF I DID START IM 6 DAYS EARLY IS THAT NORMAL ????

[Sliga]

it could be normal, Im sure all of us have experience out bodies being all crazy with us...even though I've always been regular! I've been late once and nothing..so it's normal for your body to play tricks with you.
But as they also say any change on a period, early, lighter could also mean pregnancy, not saying you are. but better take a hpt just to put your mind at ease and not worry about that! good luck =)