Thanks I will surely let him know, hopefully that works. About the birth control, I haven't taken it yet but I wanted to know if its true it regulates your period.
Have you tried guiding his hands to touch where you'd like or move how you'd like, making sounds when he's doing something particularly good, etc.? Things like this are positive ways to show your guy what you need and can help him learn how to turn you on. If it just doesn't happen, you could try lube.
It's possible it could be the birth control, I suppose, but I'm on birth control and have been for a few years now and have absolutely no problem getting wet. Still, different types of birth control will affect you differently. You could call your advice nurse or doctor to find out if your brand is associated with such side effects.