Help my vagina

[mandi2121]

Ok i am 21 and i stared having sex not too long ago i had went without sex for months and had decided to have it with my new boyfriend he was taller then me so when i bent down i could feel him hitting the skin between my butt and my vagina hole it didnt hurt during sex but afterwards like a day later it started to hurt and it burns when i pee and it started bleeding a little bit also it seems to be swollen right at the skin area between my butt and my vagina hole it feels like theres a tiny ball in there and its so painful i cant even spread my legs cause it hurts so bad and it burns and itchs a little bit i do not care about having sex i just want the pain and the burning to go away its been four days since i had sex and it still hurts like hell please help me! and i cant go to the doc i have no issuance

[jennalking1992]

The pain honestly could just be from irritation, or it could be something else. If you feel comfortable answering this question, could you tell me what exactly you feel hitting you? is it his skin above his penis or below that is touching you there? It sounds to me like it is just friction. You may need more lubrication. This happens to me sometimes when my boyfriend and I use condoms without much extra lubrication. Especially if you have sex frequently. Give it time to heal, and try putting some aloe vera or neosporin on it to help moisturize the skin back to health. It will help with irritation and pain. The lump you feel may also just be a result of skin irritation. Again, sometimes I get that as well when I use little lubrication. Let me know if this helps, if not, I will see what else I can do to assist you(: Just give it a few days of moisturizing the skin(: And best of luck to you sweetie!

[mandi2121]

I do not mind answering your question at all see the problem is what the problem is that i have had only one sex partner besides him and he liked when i was on top or he was on top he never hit it from the back four days ago i decided to try it so i bent over n grabbed my ankels and had him do it like that but my bf is much taller then me and i could feel his penis going in and out n runbbing that little part between my butt and my hole the little skin area i had told him to stop cause it hurt i figured it would go away but now it burns when i pee sometimes it hurts when i stand or sit and its super swollen with the little lump on the left side of that skin between my butt and my vagina and it started bleeding very little today it just hurts so much i never wanna have sex again plus his size was so big compared to my ex boyfriend