I am a 26 year old woman and about two years ago I stopped getting the depo provera shot. I have a medical history of irregular periods and by the time I stopped getting the depo provera shot I had been taking birth control on and off since I was 18 years old. Currently I bleed almost completely all month long. It stops for a day or two and then starts up again. It's not very heavy about 90% of the time, but occassionally it is heavy. I weigh about 360 lbs. (give or take a few pounds) and am 5'6" in height. My husband and I are trying to conceive amidst all of this and it's been a year without anything to show for it. I have no health insurance so I am going to a clinic that gets government assistance because that's the only thing my husband and I can afford. I need some help and not just to be told I'm fat and need to lose weight because that's not the only answer. I live in the real world and I know what I am and yes, weightloss might do me some good, but it's not the only answer. Any advice?