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I didn't bleed when I lost my virginity
I am a 17 year old female. and never had sex before until Feb.15th 2010 with my almost 11month boyfriend.
He is the first person i ever had sex with and the only one I'm have sex with..the thing is I didn't bleed when I lost it to him or any of the other times we've had sex. I was wondering what the problem was. I'm a perfectly healthy person with no medical history.
He is the first person i ever had sex with and the only one I'm have sex with..the thing is I didn't bleed when I lost it to him or any of the other times we've had sex. I was wondering what the problem was. I'm a perfectly healthy person with no medical history.
i read you note ....dont worry its normal the only way a female will bleed the 1st time is if the sexual intercourse was to rough some guys take pain as pleasure end up hurting their parter but you are all good you will never bleed by hzving sexual intercourse........now if u bleed during sexual intercourse and its not ur menstrual cycle then u do have to worry for any stds such *** clhymidia/gonorrhea ...something else now that u are sexual active you should go end get tested get ur pap smear every 6 months i bearly started doing that about 1 to 2yrs ago i was only with one parter for 4 yrs and he endep up giving me chlymia wich is curable but u dont wnat to expirience non of that so please start gping to a ob/gyne if u havent good luck and use condoms!!!!! if you dont like them try the female condoms they are way big and both of yous will have pleasure
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A hymen is not a membrane that entirely blocks the vagina, anyway, it has a hole in it for the menstrual flow to pass through. The "breaking" mythology acts like it's a piece of Saran wrap stretched over the top of a glass, but that is not true. Yours might have had the hole already enlarged enough for a penis from the causes the other ladies named.
Not all virgins bleed the first time they have sex. I didn;t so I don't think u have anything to worry about
That's perfectly normal. Some people either don't have a hymen at all or their hymen gets torn early in life due to normal activities such as horseback riding, ballet, or bicycle riding. It's totally nothing to worry about.
Hi - Don't worry, you're completely normal my love! I didn't bleed either when i lost my virginity, and the reason is thus - its quite an old myth that EVERY girl MUST bleed when they loose their virginity - back in the old days it was a scandal if you didn't, but these days girls are so active and use tampons ect that its not that common. The reason some girls bleed is because a very thin piece of skin covers the vagina, and its this breaking that can cause bleeding - but if you have done PE at school or any kind of sports, ridden a bike or used a tampon these can all also break this very flexible flimsy piece of skin and you might not have noticed. This is 100% completely normal and health - not everyone bleeds, its not odd, abnormal or weird - you are 100% normal and health hon - I hope this helps you out
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