Hi Ladies...hope this helps...I had a sore swollen lump there once, showed it to my gyn during an exam...I said: do I have cancer??? She just laughed & said NOOO , you do NOT have cancer, it's an ingrown hair! She advised soaking a washcloth in as hot water as you can stand, place it on the lump frequently...and sure enough, in a couple days, the infection came to a head, and I popped the ingrown hair right out, gone, never to return :) good luck!
keep disinfecting it twice a day, that should help get rid of the infection. If it is an ingrown hair that cannot be removed with a simple plucker, then you should show your doctor, they sometimes have to perform a small insicion to release the hair. But don't play around with it and be sure to disinfect it.
All my girlfriends are telling me that im over-reacting and that its just an infected hair bump....but...i still think its something worse. Anyone ever had anything like this before. One girl said her sister had to have hers lanced and drained?
I'm not a doctor, but to me what it sounds like is probably what you thought... an ingrown public hair. with the boyfriend's squeezing and tugging, it probably made it a bit worse and thats why the swelling has gone up and its more tender with pus.
id keep your eye on it for a couple days... if it gets worse and doesnt get any better, then I'd make an appt.