No Labia Minora

[smokekitty82]

I have seen many, many sites and questions from girls concerned with their inner labia being large. But i am the complete opposite i have looked for a pic of someone whose vagina looks like mine and still have not found one evry pc i see has the inner labia and with me i honestly dont have any. i dont mind how i look but its kinda disturbing that everyone else has them. i have seen some where they are small but mine are none existant. i guess i would lke to know what is the issue with me down there and if anyone can help me from feeling like im deformed cuz i honestly think i am.

[PartialMarshal]

Hello, my girlfriend also has no inner labia. I noticed it the second time we were together. She is 38, has a daughter, has gone to doctors visits and what not and I'm the only one who has mentioned it. She doesn't care and neither do I. Perhaps no medical professionals mentioned it before because it's not abnormal.

[AnnieBrooke]

Marshall, there are so many variations on vaginal lips that no wonder no doctor has ever mentioned it (if he or she even noticed).  I feel for all the young girls who no matter what they look like, think their vaginal lips are in some way not "normal." They can look all the way from a hamburger bun with fat lettuce sticking out to a total clamshell, and no matter what, so often think theirs is wrong and other women's are right. It's pretty heartbreaking because it's all normal. (And, as my husband says, "If a guy is in the happy position of looking at labia face to face, he's not making judgements, he's thinking he's lucky.")

Thanks for writing in.

[RenMarie88]

Ask your gyno about vagina atrophy.

[Urban4370]

I don't know if any of you are still following this post or not but here's my two cents anyways. I don't have labia minora either. I've had so many conversations with other women about theirs and mine and how very different we are. Time after time after time I have been told that I have the most beautiful vagina that guys have ever seen. That they have never seen such a neat, clean, "new" looking vagina before. My husband calls it the "hamburger" as opposed to the "roast beef sandwich" and says that guys love "hamburgers" and that I should feel special. That I don't look "used". So all of you ladies feeling weird about your hamburger stop bcuz we've got grade A 100% pure beef!

[Dani8M]

OMG. i'm a 23 yo who don't have it either. I do have a clit hood and a tiny thing that goes both ways until the middle of my vulva but doesn't seems like a normal inner labia and also doesn't cover my vaginal oppening.
I also couldn't find any pics related to this.
Anyone knows where i can find those?

[manoflove]

Hello Sweetheart,

I'm a guy, and the sweetest, most beatiful vagina I have ever seen in my 60 years of life in any venue is a smooth, youthful, and rare jewel of a sex organ is a clean, open tiny/non-inner lip vagina by far!!

I've been blessed with one in my wife of 37 years, and I still marvel at it. I still can't keep my eyes off it. Also, I just can't get enough of it in any way. Trust me, MOST men would do ALMOST anything to share tender love with you, and your jewel of jewels, and the ultimate treasure find of a life time. Because Baby, you are rare and priceless. I really mean that!!
Treasure your rare and beatiful gift. For what is not common to man is always of the greatest value to those who truly understands.

[YukiS]

I have no labia minora either. I only found this out after I heard other girls talking about their "sweet spots". I looked at some diagrams, and realised that there is always 2 sets of lips- and I just always thought there was no such thing as "inner lips"
Awesome to know I am not the only one!

[19461964]

Women in your elite club should be very grateful!!  You naturally already have the "Barbie".  All the women porn stars want that look, its beautiful!!

[RelaxImHere]

What you said about guys who like to perform oral sex on women prefering larger lips is 100% YOUR opinion; don't speak on behalf of all men. I am a very generous lover. In the past and all the way up to my wife today, I have always been more into giving than receiving so long as she doesn't have sagging labia minora lips.
Back when I was playing the field, if I noticed a girl was all loose and hanging down there, that was it for me. A one night stand with no oral for her was all there was and no second date. Show me a nice vagina(preferably with hair) that has small to no labia minora lips showing and she won't see my face for at least an hour.
I have NEVER met a guy in my 50+ years on this earth that prefered a woman to have wrinkly, loose, hanging vagina lips. Contrary to what you said, most men will not even consider going down on a girl if she looks like she's smuggling roast beef.

[RelaxImHere]

What you said about guys who like to perform oral sex on women prefering larger lips is 100% YOUR opinion; don't speak on behalf of all men. I am a very generous lover. In the past and all the way up to my wife today, I have always been more into giving than receiving so long as she doesn't have sagging labia minora lips.
Back when I was playing the field, if I noticed a girl was all loose and hanging down there, that was it for me. A one night stand with no oral for her was all there was and no second date. Show me a nice vagina(preferably with hair) that has small to no labia minora lips showing and she won't see my face for at least an hour.
I have NEVER met a guy in my 50+ years on this earth that prefered a woman to have wrinkly, loose, hanging vagina lips. Contrary to what you said, most men will not even consider going down on a girl if she looks like she's smuggling roast beef.
To all the ladies reading this: Consider yourselves blessed! Most men would kill to have a girlfriend or wife with such a nice and neat, sexy looking vagina. I would never have married my wife if she did not have what you girls have. Not to sound shallow but the heart wants what the heart wants; or maybe it's another part of my body that wants this, not my heart? wink, wink!

[nickfree]

I seen my share in naughty pics but for women I have been with on had large lips and the other nothing more than a tiny hood. after both I wish more women looked like the first woman that had no labia. she actually looked like there was nothing there from the front. only from underneath did you see a vagina. VERY NEAT AND CLEAN looking. wish more were like this.

[thickspot]

i'll bet you are beautiful! regardless of whatever "standard" our society imposes upon us…we should embrace differences and be totally happy with the bodies we live in. i used to hate my penis,uncircumised,somewhat on the short side, and thick. as i grew older i discovered women absolutly loved my penis and found the thickness more pleasurable than a long one…i began to fall in love with my penis all over again at 20 years old, and the love affair continues to this day, 39 years later!  the moral of all this;LOVE YOURSELF AS YOU ARE! gary taylor,clayton,nc

[Carla19462007]

grinny, Different men like different things!  Unike that guy, I much prefer women with very small or no labia minora. I am sure that you are very beautiful in that respect. Many women in Hollywood have paid big bucks for the "Barbie" look.

[Carla19462007]

grinny, Different men like different things!  Unike that guy, I much prefer women with very small or no labia minora. I am sure that you are very beautiful in that respect. Many women in Hollywood have paid big bucks for the "Barbie" look.

[rissalin]

What does mean to not have an inner labia?

[jeanie222]

I have no inner labia at all & have always wanted to have some put on, cuz I feel deformed like a freak. I didn't know they had enhancement surgery. I just wonder if they could put something on when you have nothing there at all. Maybe you have to have small labia for them to attach to. I don't know. The other day I asked my husband what he preferred & I told him to be honest. He told me that he loves what I have cuz I'm the love of his life, but that in the past he always preferred larger labia. I did tell him to be honest so, I didn't say a word after he gave me his answer. But, I couldn't help but feel hurt. My husband said that I wouldn't be me if I had the surgery, but I want to be improved so I feel better.

[sunflower386]

That is so ridiculous that a man ended a relationship because he enjoys sucking on big lips. I have medium sized labia minor not too big or small in fact I have never paid much attention to them which means they must be average in size since I didn't obsess about them, but as a woman I do admire the simple beauty of a vagina with no labia minor. I have had many sexual partners and LOVE sex I have intense orgasms from oral and multiple orgasms from vaginal sex...and I am getting to my point here. I absolutely HATE when a man tries to suck on my labia minor....I want to smack them on the head and ask them why they are wasting their time doing that when it will not result in anything other than distracting me from my goal....ORGASM! Don't let one lip sucking RUDE weirdo derail you from pursuing a satisfying sexual partner, you are beautiful and sexy and NOT missing anything by not having big lips to suck on...trust me on that!

[Ebony17]

Hi I'm 17 and I'm just now realizing that I don't have any labia minora either. I thought all the girls who had it were weird and I was normal. I looked at some porn and realized that they all had labia and I don't so I looked this up on the Internet and everyone was saying if you don't have them you're unattractive,undeveloped,childlike,extended *** crack etc. Now I'm scared to ever have sex because guys probably think I look like a little girl :(

[grinny779]

I am 40 year old now and  divored. A couple of months ago  I was datng this guy who liked me otherwse but aftr a couple of meetings we finally decided to explore the sexual side, so everthing was going well, but when he got down on me, he asked "hey ! you dont have the turkey  skin".. I was confused as to what was he saying, then he explained that I am missing the labia minora.. and the next day he sent me an email that he doesnt want to   continue wih this relationship becuse I am missng somthing that he enjoys to suck on.now I am scared to even date anyone.

[bello902]

hi i either have a inner labia its normal. And your not alone i thought at first i was alone, but i guessed wrong. Were all perfectly fine just a little bit different and its okay being different and like i said your not alone.

[AlexBruxer]

As a guy, I have never really thought of this, neither have I heard much about it. However, when I got a girlfriend, she didn't want to show me or let me see her vagina, I figured something was up but didn't know what it could be as I am a guy not a girl. I asked her a few times why, she never said why, I let her come out on her own but give her comfort since it was something that obviously really bothered her, she did come out, and it was this problem, no inner labia. I don't mind it, no guy should, its still all fine, if a guy worries about how it looks, then he should go find a pornstar, no human is the same, but some problems may trouble a girl, just give them comfort because they may think they are alone from looking at the people around them, but they are not, there will always be someone with a similar problem somewhere. Just as me and my girlfriend do, there is no problem, she still gets orgasms etc, it doesn't really bother her much anymore.

[AvaO]

I also am of Native American decent and have almost no visible labia minora.  I would love to know if there is an actual correlation.  Also, I attempted to get my hood pierced and the qualified professional that was doing the piercing told me that he couldn't in good concience pierce what little hood I do have.

[maya_maya1]

LISTEN.. well i have the same issue but to be honest, i dont like it that way..
in another week im doing a surgery to make inner labia. actually i have them but they are so small i can bearly see them. i know the DR, and he knows how to make the labia smaller and also how to make them bigger. if u girls like it that way thats cool!! but the ones who doesnt..just know u can fix it.

[fargoneashley]

i didn't realize until today that there is something wrong with me :( i had no idea women are supposed to have two sets of vagina lips. i mean i knew from seeing pornos before that some women's vaginas look very weird to me cuz of what looked like a bunch of excess skin on their vagina lips there but i had no idea that what i was seeing was their second set of lips showing through. and i definitely had no idea THEY were the normal ones, i thought it was them who had the strange vagina, not me.
up til today i actually liked the way my vagina looks compared to theirs but now i feel like i am missing a body part and there is something that went wrong with me as a fetus and maybe even my genes are mutated to cause me to be deformed. i totally get why girls with big labia skins feel like we should not be upset but ours isnt just small, we dont have it AT ALL. i dont think they understand how it feels like to feel like you're not even a fully formed girl. at least they have everything they are supposed to have :\

[MackenzieG83]

I have been worried for some time now that I wasn't complete down there when I realized that I too am without labia minora. I always thought that mine were just really unpronounced which is why I never could really see them but upon really close inspection I came to the realization that I was just made without labia minora. I feel so much better that not only am I not the only one but that there are many of us. I am posting this so that the next woman who thinks her vagina is freakish or incomplete or just goes searching the Internet for reassurance that she's normal has one more post to read to let her know that she was made perfectly. Thank you to all the women who posted here confirming their labia minora free status--you have no idea just how much better you have made me feel!