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No period and not pregnant..Talked to Gyno need some advice!!

My period is 2 months late. I haven't ever been this late so I called my doctor and asked her what she thought. I have to pain, no spotting, no sores, regular bowel movements, no soreness or redness, no stinky discharge and am almost positive I am not pregnant. I have taken 7 urine test and 3 blood tests. I am so confused. I have been stressed but I don't think that stressed. I don't have the signs of any STD's but I need some comfort. My gyno told me to relax and said to come in in February. She isn't that worried about it. But I am totally worried. I don't have any signs and symptoms of anything. When I have sex it doesn't hurt. And I don't bleed. There is no discomfort at all. Somebody please give me some ideas. Please let me know what could be going on with my body. I am scared. Thanks
With concern
Jaymie
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I am only 5days late and struggling not to stress out. Before my period was due I was convinced I wasnt pregnant and the day before I took a test and as expected negative. Full expected my period to start on monday but nothing. Its day 5 and felt ok then had a really bad dizzy spell and headache. Dont know if I should test again.
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please see your post that you started, I commented there.  
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I am 10 days late on my period.I had a miscarriage in January and was put on  the Depo in February.i was bleeding on the Depo for 4 months and then didn't go back to get it because of the bleeding(Irregular period). Then about 20 days later I had a regular period.It lasted about 5 days and was heavier than usual.Now I have taken 4 pregnancy test because I was confused about how i could stop bleeding all of a sudden and all were negative. Now it has been 30 days and haven't had a period since but i have been very sexually active.I'm not sure exactly what is going on but I am 10 days late.I am wondering if i should take another pregnancy test or what?
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My bf and I have been ******* like rabbits and having sex around six to seven times a week for the past 5 months. Unprotected. With no BC. For the past two months I haven't had my period. I had four pego tests and they all came back negative. So im wondering what could it be?
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I am 32 and have not had a period since February 6. I'm trying to have another baby with my husband but I don't know what's going on. I got off the pill at the end I f January.  I don't know if its because I've taken the pill for 10 years. Before my son I rarely got my period but I really want another baby. What can I do?
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I haven't had my period since may 10th 2011 .. today is may 19th 2013 I'm not on birth control and I've seen alot of doctors no one knows what's wrong with me I will be 20 in September I started my period when I was 11 and after my 18th bday I stopped having it..
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I'm 30 years old and up to 2 years ago my periods were regular but now I'm lucky if I have 1 every 3 months. I been suffering like short stabbing pains in my left lower side more than the right. I'm petrified of doctors hospitals I'm getting a bit scared now as still no period It's been nearly 4 months now and pain more frequent it pain for a few seconds at a time please help
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I haven't came onn my period since april. And I tests done and an altro-sound done and it came out negitive. I really don't know what's going on and they tested me for std and that came out negitive to. I'm scarred and don't no what to do at this point
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i am 35 years and i've been using injection for 7 years.  i stop used it in December 2010. last year i've been diagnose with ovarian cysts.  and after some months gynae said it have gone.  some i've got 2 periods in a month.  please i need some advice.
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I have not had my period for a good while, had not had sex in a long long time and only 22 and been to the doctors at the GP  and took lot of pee tests and blood tests. He didn't worry or knew what it was so it scared me not knowing. I had it before for one mouth when I was younger but got worry this time around as it been 3 mouths and still no period and seen Doctor about it but they send me around and just said am not pregnant and not to worry with still no answers to what it is.

so look online and seen one tip from someone to ask to tried a homeopathic medicine called Menodoron!

and I also came across something a site about miss period and they call it Amenorrhea – Missed Periods

There are two types of amenorrhea:
* Primary amenorrhea - You’re older than 15 and you’ve never had a menstrual period.

* Secondary amenorrhea - You’ve been having normal menstrual cycles and they’ve suddenly stopped. This is the more common form of amenorrhea.

You said you worry so please DON'T! If it Amenorrhea you shouldn't stress as it cause a delay or stop completely in your period.  Do you have Excessive weight loss, or weight gain? have you a Eating disorders? Do you Rigorous Exercise? are you on any pills?
as they also cause delay in period or stop completely.

And it maybe what I have too as I suffer from depression,Stress and anxiety, I put on weight gain and a eating disorder. I use to be the other way around when I was younger I was too skinny, exercise everyday day, but over eat. I take pills too called Abilify that maybe the cause as will.

MY tip for you is research more on it in book and off the net and take it to your Doctor and look over it together and take tests to see what you have and cause of it! AS I find Doctor don't know everything thing and it I find it bad if they send away to other doctors as you don't get same answers and less likely to knew what wrong. so try to stick to the same doctor if you can!
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I have not had my period for a good while, had not had sex in a long long time and only 22 and been to the doctors at the GP  and took lot of pee tests and blood tests. He didn't worry or knew what it was so it scared me not knowing. I had it before for one mouth when I was younger but got worry this time around as it been 3 mouths and still no period and seen Doctor about it but they send me around and just said am not pregnant and not to worry with still no answers to what it is.

so look online and seen one tip from someone to ask to tried a homeopathic medicine called Menodoron!

and I also came across something a site about miss period and they call it Amenorrhea – Missed Periods

There are two types of amenorrhea:
* Primary amenorrhea - You’re older than 15 and you’ve never had a menstrual period.

* Secondary amenorrhea - You’ve been having normal menstrual cycles and they’ve suddenly stopped. This is the more common form of amenorrhea.

You said you worry so please DON'T! If it Amenorrhea you shouldn't stress as it cause a delay or stop completely in your period.  Do you have Excessive weight loss, or weight gain? have you a Eating disorders? Do you Rigorous Exercise? are you on any pills?
as they also cause delay in period or stop completely.

And it maybe what I have too as I suffer from depression,Stress and anxiety, I put on weight gain and a eating disorder. I use to be the other way around when I was younger I was too skinny, exercise everyday day, but over eat. I take pills too called Abilify that maybe the cause as will.

MY tip for you is research more on it in book and off the net and take it to your Doctor and look over it together and take tests to see what you have and cause of it! AS I find Doctor don't know everything thing and it I find it bad if they send away to other doctors as you don't get same answers and less likely to knew what wrong. so try to stick to the same doctor if you can!
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im 39. no period now for over 6 months.....no sighns, no symptoms, no bloating...im worried its cancer!
i am on antidepressants, anti anxiety meds. i have noticed i can get bouts of aggression.
i have numerous blood tests and NOTHING....im so scared.
i havnt had kids and doubt i will ever be able to.
i must add that im a heavy smoker and gave up heavy drinking 30 days ago.
i am on a healthy eating plan and do exercise. i have lost 5kg which im really happy about.
im not obese, just overweight.
i want some answers and am sick of blood tests.
my pap smears are clear and i dont have any unusual dicharge or odour.
i must add, theres no family history of early menopause.
i want this sorted once and for all.
my main issue is cost but then again my health is important.
my nan did have ovarian cancer so i guess there is a history.
im really scared......any advice?
is it medication? is it stress? is it smoking????
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Did you ever find out why the delay in your period?  I have gone through some of the same issues lately and am wondering about the outcome of your situation.
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i know exactly how you feel it is now nearing the end of december and i have not gotten a period since october. i know for a fact that i am not pregnant because i am not sexually active. just really confused and kinda worried.
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I have some what of the same problem . I have been on the depo shot for 2 years , but I was supposed to get it again on the 24th of august but I didn't . Normally I bleed until I get the shot again , but this time I bled for 4 days .I haven't bled since then and its going on 4 months . My breast are swollen , I've gained weight and lost and gained within a month . Sometimes I look bloated . I have no idea what to do . I'm scared but my mom isn't worried about it ?
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I'm only 22 years old and as of late, haven't had a period since july/aug. 3 months later. I'm looking over this stuff, and thinking back on things i've heard before. Everyone should get checked out by a doctor, but if you're like me, that won't be happening anytime soon. but here are a few causes I've heard of in the last few years that aren't normally discussed:

1) 'normal' irregular period

2) hormonal, depression or stress problems

3) other physical problems (cysts, etc.)

4) early sexual attaivities (and yes, as weird as it sounds, starting sexual stuff at a too early age can interfer with the devolopment of your reproductive system)

5) too much sexaul play (another wierd one, but some women who play too much can cause damage to themselves, especailly with certain 'toys', when used too much to the point it hurts. espcially when too young)

6) Infections (regular infections to uncleand toys can cause inside damge)

7) Infertal (some girls are born that way, and it's not normal for them to get periods. Although certain medicines can be taken to force periods)

Now please don't just dimiss everything above just because some can't be proven to you. For myself, i don't know my specific reasons. I have periods, but can go 2-4 months at a time without them, have never been pregnant (although have worried at times). This has been going on for 8 years now, and so far, nothing wrong that i can tell. But again, for those of you who can get to a doctor, their exams would be more helpful than me.
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I havent get my period for more than 10 days, I am really swelled, feel sick and hungry and tired all the time, I cant wake up in the mornings and I feel heavy all the times! some times I cant breath good and I feel like my heart is going to stop beating, I have sharp pain in my stomach which is really similar to my period pain but still???
these feeling are awful and really annoying and some times i feel my blood vessels are clogged there is no blood going to my head:-S
I am sure that I am not pregnant since i didnt have sex for more than 3months:-S
what should I do? it is really hard to get a doctor appointment here, if i ask now maybe I get one for next year!
some one tell me what to do? I have myself that I swelled like this and some of my cloths are not fitting anymore!:(
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I havent get my period for more than 10 days, I am really swelled, feel sick and hungry and tired all the time, I cant wake up in the mornings and I feel heavy all the times! some times I cant breath good and I feel like my heart is going to stop beating, I have sharp pain in my stomach which is really similar to my period pain but still???
these feeling are awful and really annoying and some times i feel my blood vessels are clogged there is no blood going to my head:-S
I am sure that I am not pregnant since i didnt have sex for more than 3months:-S
what should I do? it is really hard to get a doctor appointment here, if i ask now maybe I get one for next year!
some one tell me what to do? I have myself that I swelled like this and some of my cloths are not fitting anymore!:(
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i miss my period for 6 months and im not pregnat
but i got it 2 days ago and now im hurting very much and is extra heavy is it ok or should i see my doctor????
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Hello. I am 17 VIRGEN and I haven't had my period in two months. I have no stress. Eat the same. Well.. let's just say there has not been any change lately. AND I have had my period (that has always been regular) for the past 6 years. SO either i'm carrying Baby Jesus  or something really weird. I do get phantom pains ect ect. The only weird thing is that my discharge is Very gooey. Almost like hardened gel. WORRIED
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hi im 16 years old kind of young but ive missed my period for 4 months now took many over the counter pregnancy test and blood test what do i do i dont know whats wrong with me and i know i cant have any std's or anything ive been with the same man for almost a year now
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New partner been with him four months and were trying for a baby but we've found out that we've got std but I've done three tests.. And I've not been on for 2 months my last period was 28 of may  
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I also have a problem..... I really hope/don't think I'm pregnant but my boyfriend and I have done some stuff... I'm still a virgin but I have been naked with him. He still had his underwear on but our privates did come in contact. It's now been a month later and my period is a week late. (something I found odd was brownish discharge for a wk or 2 after my last period so I tried to blame it on that) And I keep hearing that it is possible to be a pregnant virgin but I'm WAY too scared to get a test. Help:(
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If it's over 3 months, talk to your Gyno. Then they'll most likely give you progesterone pills that is taken for like a week. This will help shed the lining of the uterus and make you have a period. It may be heavy, but it's better than having no period cause that may lead to cancer.
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I haven't had my period for 2 months but I'm pretty sure it because I have have Hypothyroidism and been off my meds. since January. My mom also wasn't getting her periods and found out she had a thyroid condition.
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