Thanks I will take both of you ladies advice. I'll tell u how it goes!!!!!!
I recommend that you go to your local library or book store and borrow or buy "The V book" by Elizabeth G. Stewart. It explain a lot on pain during intercourse, like as an example I found out that I have "Vestibulodynia". THere other names for other kinds of pain. Let me know if that helps.
go slow and don't let him enter all the way.