Painful BD...is my cervix high or low?

Question

The last few times I have bd with DH it has been painful when he penetrates to deep or to hard. It doesn't occur every time so I was wondering if this pain is because I just ovulated and my cervix is back to low? 

Is this right?  I am never very good at determining if my cervix is high or low.

Does anyone else experience painful BD after or before O'ing?

Learner1 · Answer

Its painful me sometimes but thats bc I have a tilted cervix!

Adevotee · Answer

I have EXACTLY the same problem and I read somewhere that it is from not being "turned-on", supposedly when a woman is "turned-on" her cervix moves out of the way. so if you are not "turned-on" then your cervix would not move and then the penis would be hitting your cervix causing pain. I have no clue if any of this is true but I do know that with myself and my sister, it is true. (my sister asked me the same question and when I turned around and asked her about being "turned-on" she admitted that sometimes she isn't as "turned-on" as she would like/should be)

DancinDiva · Answer

Hmmm....thats an interesting thought.  I don't know whether I can say its true or not. I will have to think about that the next time I bd with Dh.

cinnamon hearts · Answer

I just had intercourse recently and it was very painful when my partner went too deep i had to tell him to stop.  I wasnt turned on as much as i could be. i'm guessing the pain was because i wasn't turned on. thats good to know!!!

so does this mean my cervix is tilted or low

Adevotee · Answer

it doesn't necessarily mean that your cervix is anything. It may just mean that because you weren't turned on before you started having intercourse, that your cervix didn't have time to get out of the way.

Painful BD...is my cervix high or low?

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