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Peeing during sex
I'm 22 and just recently started having sex with my boyfriend. The other night, I went back to his place and we were still standing up when he started fooling around. I had to go to the bathroom really bad, but didn't tell him because I didn't want to ruin the mood. He had his hand down my jeans and when I really felt I couldn't hold it any longer, he said I wouldn't be able to pee during sex. So I listened and let him continue. I felt myself begin to orgasm, but as I relaxed and couldn't control my muscles, I then found myself peeing during the orgasm. My jeans were all wet down my legs and he was disgusted that I peed when his hand was still there. I honestly couldn't help it and didn't realize I was peeing until I realized the orgasm stopped but the urine didn't. I was so embarrassed and didn't know what to do. Is this something that is normal to happen? Why couldn't I hold it till after the orgasm? Is something wrong with me?
Yes, you may feel the need to urinate because Mr. Schlong has a way of poking the bladder. To prevent this, go to the bathroom right before sex; that will ease your mind about feeling like you have to pee in the middle of lovemaking. The other thing you should do because it will help strengthen muscles down there and give you deeper orgasms is Kegel exercises. You can do these anywhere sitting at your desk or waiting in line. To do Kegels, isolate the muscle that controls the flow of urine, contract it, count to 10, then release. Start with a hundred of these a day, and build up to about 300. Another possibility is that you are experiencing female ejaculation during sex. This happens when he hits your G-spot (a small gland on the upper wall of the vagina that feels spongy). This is good, because it will give you more intense orgasms. But for some women, stimulating the G-spot causes a clear fluid female ejaculate to be expelled from the Skenes gland, also known as the urethral sponge. This can happen right before or during an orgasm. Its not urine, but since its a fluid from the same vicinity, its often mistaken for it.
You are perfectly normal your body actually sometimes cannot orgasm if there's too much urine in there blocking the orgasm peeing during an orgasm usually makes it feel five times more fantastic tell him this is completely normal and that if he doesn't like it to always make sure there are towels around when you're making love. Google squirting, some men have a fetish for this. Sometimes it comes out clear and sometimes milky white your body is changing it into a natural lubricant rather than just regular urine some women can feel it coming out of their vagina instead of their urethra it's a woman's ejaculation. I remember the first time this happened to me and I was so embarrassed and ashamed I stripped all of my bedding off and threw it in the wash machine at like midnight! Since then I have read multiple things about it and realized that it doesn't hurt me or him and I'm lucky to have found a guy that's okay with it!
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Yes it is true what some other people have said sometimes for the woman no matter how hard she tries to keep it in she cannot and it just comes out because it needs to!!! For him telling you to make sure it doesn't come out it's like you telling him to make sure he doesn't ejaculate on you! you shouldn't have to be embarrassed or worried about it I was before but now 15 years later I am no longer embarrassed and I'm with a man that accepts me for who I am sometimes it happens sometimes it doesn't and on occasion I have to reach for a third towel LOL
He needs to grow up! Nothing wrong with you at all!!! Matter of fact, more than likely was not pee! Some women have squirting orgasms! You probably did! He should be proud he helped you achieve that! Most men find it extremely hot! So tell him to grow up or find yourself a real man that will appreciate you and your body!!! Relax and enjoy it don’t try to not let it happen just because of his reaction!
That happened to me once and i to felt embarrassed but it turned on my partner that he could make me orgasim to such a degree! After he said that and we talk i felt better about having it and it was pleasurable just never had it happen!
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This is not necessarily pee. Some women's bodies "shoot" water from the vagina during orgasm. And it does not come from the bladder. It does not come out of the urethra but right from the vagina. If you go to the bathroom and push to try to make sure you get all urine out of bladder before sex, and if it still happens, you will know it is not pee.I heard some doctors discuss this on a late night show once. They were talking of many health topics. They were all men and had no answer to this. They all seemed embarrassed or irritated that they asked about it and hurried onto the next topic. I don't know if it has ever been studied.
It does not come from the vagina, it comes from the "skene's gland". Here is some info
http://www.actforlibraries.org/the-skenes-gland/
http://www.actforlibraries.org/the-skenes-gland/
True when the clitoris is stroked and rubbed it will trigger this
Sweet heart you may have had what's called a squirting orgasm. Granted make sure to use the restroom before intercourse. But some Men like squirting orgasms & some women wish they could achieve a squirting orgasm. Relax, have him look it up & realize that was something you had no control of & also he chose to not give you that break & pursued you. If he's going to freak out & act like a boy, maybe you need a man that's mature enough to handle you!
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Well said!
You are perfectly normal. I can't say iv experienced this, but I'm sure there are many women who have. I do know there are many ways to make your muscles relaxed and intercourse will definitely do it. It is not your fault. You had to go to the bathroom and you even mentioned it to your boyfriend. He should not be mad and you should not be embarrassed. Sweetheart before any sexual activity just make sure you go to the bathroom first. Much love, Lexis
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