Pregnancy Meltdown

[EMK13]

I am stuck in a very complicated situation. I just went to the doctor last Thursday. I found out through an ultrasound that I am atleast seventeen or eighteen weeks along where my last appointment they estimated about thirteen weeks along right now. My current boyfriend and I got together fifteen weeks ago and started having sex thirteen to fourteen weeks ago. Before that I was seeing a coworker, who I would love to be the father of my baby. The coworker came in me and wanted to get me pregnant, where my boyfriend always pulled out. My boyfriend has no idea he may not be the father, but has become super annoying. I don't know how to break it off with him. I would love to eventually get back with my coworker and raise a family with him, just don't know how to even pursue that. Any suggestions? Who do you think the dad is? I got with my current boyfriend May 24th and began sleeping with the the first part of June. I'm thinking with how much the baby has developed by the ultrasound that it is my coworkers baby.HELP!! :)

[EMK13]

Thank you Sue. I have left my current boyfriend as of today because I realized I had to do not only what was best for me, but my baby as well. I need to be independent before I can rely on someone else. I'm sure the baby would know I was not happy in the relationship after it was born anyway just because of the bond mothers and babies have.

[Sue9510]

From the dates and time frames you have listed it appears more likely the pregnancy is a result of intercourse with your co worker.  If you are not compatible  and happy with the current partner, tell him so and get yourself in a beter place before the baby comes.