Pregnant given these circumstances

[unnamed11]

Okay, i fingered my girlfriend - before however, I "adjusted" myself as I was comfortable....to put it bluntly, my penis was in a uncomfortable position, and i adjusted it.

Now during that time i know i was previously errected and worried I -MAY- have got precum somewhere on my hands and fingers before I prenitrated her with my fingers.
I honestly don't remember if I adjusted myself under my underwear, or over.

I know i'm being very paranoid, I think. But... Here is what triggered the paranoia.
AFTER I finished what we were doing, I checked myself and I had precum, or *** or some liquid on my penis... I immediately washed my hands...then worried, if that stuff could have got on my fingers before I fingered her. However, I think I would have felt it.

Now my girlfriend has bad posture, but she started getting pretty bad back pains, from my research I found its a sign of pregnancy, but its only been around 2-3weeks.
She -should- be starting her period any day now. But Ive never been this worried in my life, Im only 18 and shes only 17 and I love her, but we're definently not ready for children.

What are our options if she is pregnant? How safe is the "Abortion" pill..
Any advice, is welcome, please.

[unnamed11]

Thanks a lot, thats what I needed to hear, its really hard to rational with thoughts like this..

[Soror]

The risk of your girlfriend being pregnant from such a tiny exposure is very, very slim.  I wouldn't worry about this - every couple goes through the OMFG! moment, and most often, it's over nothing.

My advice is to stop worrying until you have something worth worrying about.  Her period may very well may end up being late because she's freaking out - it can happen like that.  If she misses, wait one week after the first day of her missed period and have her take an over-the-counter pregnancy test.  (They are very, very cheap and can be bought at a lot of grocery stores, or you can check your local women's clinics to see if any of them give free testing.)

But seriously - you shouldn't worry so much.

If she is pregnant, you actually have quite a few options.  The abortion pill is relatively safe, but any medical procedure is going to have inherent risks, so keep that in mind.  Abortions are accessible and safe, and there is no shame in getting one, no matter what anyone tells you.  (Unless you get like...say...three, and all because you had reckless, unprotected sex, but that's a whole different kettle of fish.)

Chill out.  She'll probably get her period in a few days and leave you both feeling really, really silly.