About 2 months ago I noticed a 'squishy' lump just above my anus, and my perineum is also VERY swollen. Neither are painful, and I only noticed this issue when washing.
At first I thought it was piles, so I treated with anusol cream and suppositories - at separate times, and still the problem persisted. Next, I tried soaking in sea salt. The 'squishy' lump started to shrink in size, but the swelling between my vagina and anus got worse. My perineum is about the size of a ping pong ball at the moment, or at least that's how it feels, and I can also feel the swelling from inside my vagina. I am very worried about this, but I am also too embarrassed to go to the doctors. I have contemplated it, but my shyness and anxiety issues have got the best of me. I'm hoping I can find a medication, or treatment from a pharmacy, or store.