Sex Hurts!!

[bryanarae]

I have a few questions about my husband and I's current sexual relationship. About 1 1/2 months ago I realized sex was becoming slightly painful. And through the last month and a half it has gotten increasingly more painful and uncomfortable. There is only one sexual position that we can do without it hurting, or at least not hurting nearly as much. That position happens to be me on top lying down on him. Any other position hurts and hurts really bad. I'm not sure why. It feels like it is a pain at my cervix and kind of right centre between my hips; if that makes any sense. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas as to why this is happening or if anyone has experienced this before.
I would appreciate any opinions or thoughts! Thanks1

[goggie1965]

it's your uterus no its or buts about it check with your doctor cause it's your uterus

[jml1986]

I did have a very tilted uterus and let me tell you, sex did hurt. I did not know mine was tilted until I had my hysterectomy last July. I had been told by many doctors that is was scar tissue from childbirth come to find out it wasn't. I have been pain free since my surgery and I must say the sex is better then it ever was.

[bryanarae]

i wish that were my problem. its not a lubrication issue or in my mind. it just hurts. i talked to a nurse over the phone yesterday, she told me to book an appointment with my doctor because I could possibly have a tilted uterus. but hey, i guess we will find out! thanks for the response though! :-)

[honey1982]

maybe try using some lub. or more fur play to get you in the mood a little more. or just try and relax and enjoy the moment. the mind is a very strange thing . like if yu tell yourelf o i dont want to have sex because it will hurt then it will hurt. i used to be like that i told my man i dont like sex and he told me why. i told it hurt. so he was gentle and he started to relax me and now sex feels good.