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im 16 and im dating with my boyfriend since 1 year. He want to have sex but i feel insecure. It will be my first time and i dont know how to tell him that im not ready
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4851940 tn?1515694593
What I have read, I understand that it would.

If you have the medication leaflet, it will tell you on that what conditions it will treat.

If you are still having a problem or feel unsure that the two conditions have now cleared up, make an appointment to see your doctor to get a swab taken to be sent to the laboratory for analysis.

If your sexual partner has trich (men do not always get any symptoms) you may get reinfected.  If you have been treated for trich, your sexual partner should also be treated or checked.
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I already been treated for it i just wanted to know will that certain prescrption treat both at once IF both bv and trich was there at once
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4851940 tn?1515694593
I am not sure if there are any ob/gyn docs on this site anymore.

Do NOT treat yourself with medications.

If you have a problem, make an appointment to see your doctor who will be able to prescribe the correct medications for you.
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Will metronidazole orally 2 times a day for 7 days treat both bv and trich if you have it at the same time?
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4851940 tn?1515694593
The only way is to tell him straight that you do not want sex.

If you love him, tell him that you love him, but you are not ready to have sex.  Don't let him pressurise you into having sex with him.  It is your body.

If you are OK with things, you can satisfy his needs by giving him and "hand job".  But only if you are up to it.  

I totally agree and support your decision not to have sex at your age.
Best of luck.


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Be straight forward. Tell him you are just not ready. I'm your age, turning 17 soon and my boyfriend and I are very open about talking about sex, I've even disclosed that I prefer not to do it until I'm out of high school and ready. And if he truly loves you, he will respect that.

Relationships are all about talking. The last thing you want to do is have sex and regret it because you realise you weren't ready. So communication is key!
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Just talk to him and explain he would totally understand I was in the same position as you still is and I've been with my fiancé now for 3 years (:
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