TEEN CRISIS!!..HELPP!!

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LAST MTH I GOT WHAT I THOUGHT WAS MY PERIOD FOR 4 DAYS BUT IT WAS LIGHT..I STILL DONT KNOW WHAT IT IS TIL THIS DAY. BUT ANYHOW, AND MY B.F AND I HAD SEX ON THE 26TH OF JULY. SO LAST MTH THAT HAPPENED TO ME, AND THIS MTH I HAVENT GOTTEN ANYTHING. BUT MY NIPPLES HURT AND MY STOMACH FEELS BLOATED ALL THE TIME CONSTANTLY. AT SCHOOL I FEEL LIKE EVERYONE IS LOOKING AT ME. ITS REALLY AWKWARD. SO I HAVENT TAKEN A PREGNANCY TEST YET, B/C I THOUGHT THAT WAS MY PERIOD LAST MTH AND I DIDNT THINK ANYTHING OF IT. AND MY FRIENDS KEEP TELLING ME GO TAKE A TEST OR GO TO THE DOCTORS, BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! I AM A TEEN AND STILL IN SCHOOL I NEED SOME REALLY GOOD ADVICE!!..THANKS FOR TAKING THE TIME 2 READ THIS =]

cutie1 · Answer

thank you easton's mom!!!..i will keep that prayer in my heart!!..mwah..god bless u too!!

Easton's Mom · Answer

I was married for 2.5 years and was 27 years old when I got pregnant with my son, and I took 4 pregnancy tests which were all positive (some lines showed more than others) and finally a blood test, which was positive. I just could not believe that I was actually pregnant. But as my belly started growing and I felt my baby moving, it just got more exciting every day!! My son is 8 months old, and as I look back, being pregnant is an experience that I wouldn't trade for anything in the world. Although some days were tougher than others, it all seems like a blink of an eye now.

You will experience all kinds of emotions and situations that you never have before, and it is all a part of becoming a mother. Stay strong and know that you can always count on God to help you through the day. I have a little prayer I say when I feel like the world is falling down on me, "He who is in me, is greater than he who is in the world". 

God Bless, and Good Luck!

ksanden · Answer

cutie how old are you.. i no what u are going through. i was 16 when i had my first. i had 2 yrs of school left. i lost all of my friends. i had no one. my bf left me. i was left with nothing my dad wanted me to get an abortion, but i could not even think about doing that. my daughter is four now and she is my joy. i graduted from school went to college for a year, fell in love and now im happy with 2 wonderful kids a boy n girl. you will make it trust me when i say this it is hard and it doesnt get easier but u will get threw all of this i no that ur scared its normal to feel that. congrats on the lit one i hope he/ she brings u happiness. and never forget about your dreams i did it all being a single mom. anyone can do it, all u have to do is put ur mind to it, take care of your self
ksanden

cutie1 · Answer

YAH THXX LADIES SOOO MUCH 4 ALL YOUR ADVICE AND CONCERNS I REALLY REALLY APPRECIATE IT!!!..I WILL DO THE BEST I CAN TO GET THROUGH..THX BUNCHEZ!!!..MUAHZz!!!!

sarahm1382 · Answer

Any line, light or dark should be read as a positive.  You need to talk to one of your parents and let them know what's going on.  If you're too afraid to do that yet, then I would suggest going to a Crisis Pregnancy Center or Planned Parenthood.  They have counselors that can help you figure out your next move and can get you in to see a doctor.

Honey, I feel for you.  I got pregnant when I was a junior in high school, so I know what you're going through.  It's a tough road and you have a lot of hard decisions to make, but you can do it.  If you ever need anything, I'm here.

(((((((HUGS))))))))

arynjoy06 · Answer

you need to go to the doctors and get a blood test to be sure, then schedule the necessary appointments from tere,  have you told your bf?  or your parents?

cutie1 · Answer

SO EVERYONE...I TOOK ANOTHER TEST THIS PAST THURSDAY AND IT WAS POSITIVE...BUT THE VERTICAL LINE N THE ROUND CIRCLE WAS REAL LIGHT...WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!!

cutie1 · Answer

AND IT STOPPED THIS MORNING...BUT WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW??..SOMETIMES MY OVARIES HURT =/..SO I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT 2 DO....

cutie1 · Answer

SO I TOOK A TEST YESTERDAY N I THINK IT WAS NEGATIVE BUT THE LINES WERE NOT CLEAR..SO IDK...BUH IF IT REALLY WAS NEGATIVE, WHY DO I FEEL THE WAY I DO ALL THE TIME??..N MY STOMACH STILL LOOKS POOFED OUT..N ITS HARD 2 SUCK IN..OH AND ALSO I STARTED BLEEDING AGAIN LIGHT BUT NOT AS LIGHT AS SPOTTING AND IT ONLY LASTED A COUPLE DAYS

arynjoy06 · Answer

Have you done a test yet?

cutie1 · Answer

AND ALL OF A SUDDEN I STARTED FEELING NAUSEAS AND I HAVE BEEN SNEEZING ALL DAY =[

cutie1 · Answer

SUPER TIRED..AND LIKE UGH. AND I HAVE BEEN GETTING HEADACHES ALOT RECENTLY.

MOLP · Answer

How are you feeling today?

cutie1 · Answer

OHH WOW WELL THATS GUD UR DOING GUD!..N THANK YOU

almostAmommie7 · Answer

And just know that if you are pregnant, you will get through it. I myself am 33 weeks and only 16. It's been very hard, but just keep your head up and pray. Good luck.

cutie1 · Answer

THANK YOU SOO MUCH I WILL REALLY TAKE YOUR ADVICE SERIOUSLY AND TAKE THIS SITUATION RESPONSIBLY, YAH I HAVE BEEN THROUGH A LOT YOU WOULDN'T IMAGINE SO YAH I GUESS I AM VERY STRONG AND I CAN HANDLE THIS THE RIGHT WAY!

THANK YOU SO SO SO
>>P.S. I DONT REALLY HAVE A MOTHER OR FATHER FIGURE SO THANK YOU REALLY YOUR A BLESSING!..GOD BLESS<3

MOLP · Answer

And please try to relax.  Us ladies are very strong and we can get through more than we think.  You will be just fine. :-)   (Take that test!)

MOLP · Answer

You can have bleeding due to implantation. The egg, which is really your baby, will implant on the uterus to start its life. Usually this bleeding is very light or even seen as small dots known as spotting. I would really take the pregnancy test. You need to take it as soon as possible because if you are pregnant you need to be seen at a doctor's office for care. Your health needs to be evaluated and you need to start taking vitamins for the baby right away. The first months of pregnancy are very important. Take the pregnancy test and if you get a positive result let one of your parents know right away. If you are scared, have your friends take the test with you. If you are sexually active then you really need to be on some form of birth control and definately using condoms to help prevent pregnancy. Having a baby is a very serious thing. It is a huge responsibility for anyone but especially for someone at a very young age. You will get through this is you just breathe and think responsibly. It is your responsibility to look after your health so you will need to take the pregnancy test right away. God Bless.

TEEN CRISIS!!..HELPP!!

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