Vaginal Tearing during sex

[silentobserver]

I think, but not really sure if this is where I should post this.  But I have some questions that I would like to have answers to.  Recently my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time.  He is umm kinda big.  And I haven't had it that big before.  Anyway, when we first started there was no problems for entry but it started hurting.  It wasn't too big of a deal.  Well now I have tears...in two or three locations on the outside of my vaginal area.  It hurts to move in anyway including going to the bathroom for obvious reasons since they are cuts.  But I was wondering what I should do?  The pain is unbearable.  Almost like when I had my son and I ended up with four tears.  Thanks.

[211567]

I had sex with my boyfriend a few days ago and I believe I wasn't wet enough when he went in ans that caused the tearing. But I tried granola oil and that didn't help. There was some bleeding and a lot of pain. This morning when I went pee I passed out because the stinging was unbearable. Please help!!

[Gracie312]

Hi, just wanted to say that the same thing has been happening to me recently. It *****. I was reading above and maybe try coconut oil? The stinging whenever you urinate is because your soar or even ripped alittle. Try to use the coconut oil down there frequently alittle goes a long way! That should help.

[Nessa2497]

I feel like the only one this has happened to. I actually ripped during sex and bled thru 4 pairs of pants. I had to go to the hospital and get surgery. Has this ever happened to anyone??

[Bon1982]

Hi, thank you so much for posting your comment. This just happen to me a few days ago..so scary! I'm just wondering what the aftercare was like for you? Im really worried it will happen again as my bf and I have no idea why it happen! Any advice would be greatly recieved!!

[Shawnaaa619]

This just happend to me a week ago. Had to get surgery and everything. I got 1 tear. Told me no sex or tampons for 6 to 8 weeks.. Scared to have sex again.. i really dont remember what happened but i bled soo much it looked like someone got murdered... plus my new bf is a lot bigger then what ive had. How is it for you now?? Can you have sex normally?

[Lpo7865]

After the surgery have u had intercourse ever again?

[Lovebird96]

Your vagina is not accustom to that size you have to let him go in slow until your vagina get use tote size or else its going to hurt ur vagina is a sensitive organ that you have to take good care of if you find yourself urinating at least twice after having sex, its normal. If you have sex with him and find ur yourself in a lot of pain when he inserts it in let himbtake it out nd go to the bathroom turnvthe pipe on in the tub if u have one sit in it but the water has to be warm, it helps with the pain nd after your done dont wipe your vagina dab it dry and put some neosporin on it till it heals continue this process till it heals

[CKCrit]

Hi, I posted already just to say thanks for the tip but now I am posting to say WOW...What a difference. Only used the "Unrefined" Coconut oil for 4 days before hubby and I tried it out. Absolutely no pain and no tearing for the first time in almost 4 years...very little goes a long way. Am taking the supplements also but am so very pleased...
Thanks again

[Arrii]

Did the coconut oil make the pain go away ? Because I haven't found anything to help and the pain is really bad.

[Rubyduhhh]

If you have medicinal marijuana in your area any kush of your choice would help with the uncomfortable feeling when walking and sitting. And coconut does help also ease that uncomfortable feeling.

[CKCrit]

Hello, was just doing a quick search for "exact same problems"...Very frustrated, menopausal  female here...LOL.....and I like my husband very much and cannot have sex due to severe pain and tearing. Bleeding from tears is not much fun either....very patient husband.
Thank you for this, am going to try...Hormones made me so sick, helped but too many other side problems and the risks!? Just....NO...so thank you, thank you for this comment. I hope it helps me as it has you.

[insideglimpse]

you're sure it not herpes huh? hmm Dr. Science, guess you missed the day in  sex school when they covered that condoms do not prevent herpes.