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Vaginal wall Tearing
not sure if i put this under the right topic but here goes. I've been with my fiancee for a year and half. the first six months sex was great but for the past year I've been dealing with a cut or tear in my vaginal wall that has not healed. ive been to my regular doctor many times and went to a gyno and have been tested for every std out there all came back negative. ive been prescribed steroid creams and something else meant for herpes but it was just to mask the pain not heal the tear. i've gone months without sex, tried switching condoms, lubes, and underwear and i've stopped using tampons and scented soaps and still the tear is right there staring back at me. along with the tear i have throbbing on my lower abdominal area and lower back on the side the cut is on. i'm at a complete loss of what to do outside of getting a third opinion and even then i don't know if the doctor will know whats going on... when i search for it online i only see results from women having tears after giving birth...even if there is someone who has the same thing would help a lot but i really need help because i don't want to get married and not have sex with my husband...this is ruining my sex life =(
Yeah sort of have the same problem i had sex with my boyfriend and after the first couple of times i spotted and bled for a couple days. That is normal. But my problem now is me and my boyfriend havent had sex in a while so i masterbated and now i am bleeding again. I think its my vaginal lining that tore but i just want to make sure that sitting this out and letting it heal this time is the way to go.
If it hurts really bad, there's something going wrong. Like really wrong. You need to get checked out to make sure he's not doing you real damage.
And then y'all are going to either have to learn some positions that allow for deeper penetration without pain, or he's going to have to ease up on you. He's not... making you bigger. That "breaking through walls" thing is complete ********. He clearly has no idea what's going on in your body. He's HURTING you.
And then y'all are going to either have to learn some positions that allow for deeper penetration without pain, or he's going to have to ease up on you. He's not... making you bigger. That "breaking through walls" thing is complete ********. He clearly has no idea what's going on in your body. He's HURTING you.
i have been with my fiance about a year, and well he is about 9-10 inches and pretty thick and we have sex and usually it doesnt hurt but only whenever he goes in all the way. he says he has "broken 3 walls" but i think he means that he has just made my vagina deeper but it hurts really bad when he is doing it but i want him to put it all the way in so i deal with the pain, after he has stretched out some of it he goes more and more at a time, and we have rough sex alot, i was wondering if its possible that he could rip the very back wall to the point it cant stretch anymore and what the medical effects would be?
I've actaully been through this and found a successful treatment. My vaginal wall tore during sex one time, i instantly started bleeding out uncontrollably, it was very painful to sit, urinate, and walk. I went to see a gyno and she told me why it had tore (because of not enough lubrication and having too much rough sex) but she said she could heal it by sewing up the wall just like you would if you put a stitch in. She stitched me up that day, told me to wait 6 weeks before i had sex again (to prevent from pulling the stitches out and tearing it again) and I've been pain free ever since. I would definitely talk to your doctor and see if it is possible for them to do a similar procedure.
I have he same problem with my bf, It was fine at first and then one day when we were having sex I felt a tear and ever since it has been excruciating to have sex. It hurt so badly for so Lon that I spent literally hundreds of dollars on doc appts, and nothing no one can tell me whats wrong. Lemme know if u guys find an answer.
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