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Weird painful feeling after being fingered.

Hi,
My boyfriend fingered me a lot yesterday. It was kind of a Valentines Day celebration. He usually only uses one or two fingers but i was really turned on and my vagina expaned a little so he ended up using 4 fingers. It didn't hurt at all at the time. It felt amazing. 24 hours later it started to feel really really sore. It feels like there's a giant hole down there, well i mean there obviously is but it's like a weird uncomfortable feeling. It just feels like have to go pee so bad that it hurts. I keep trying to go like every 5 minutes but i don't even have to go. and it hurts worse when i do that? is this normal? is there anything i can do to make it better? thanks for your help
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I felt the same way except I don’t feel like I have to pee, I just feel sore and uncomfortable. I’m gonna tell my bf to go slower cuz guys don’t understand that. Most girls like it more slow and they think we like it fast but it feels better when it’s slow. And no guy will ever know how the clit works so don’t try to teach them.
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thanks for sharing. Agree that sometimes some 'coaching' can really help.  
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You shouldn't be posting this and asking questions you should just make an appointment with a physician or go through emergency or your nearest Urgent Care immediately as soon as possible could be a serious infection or disease or you could be torn inside maybe wasn't hurting at the time and then later you started hurting either way needs to be seen by a good confident physician immediately instead of asking questions go to the doctor and be checked ASAP or hospital emergency
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I highly suggest you make an appointment with a good physician or a good gynecologist and be seen ASAP what if you have an infection needs to be treated or maybe was too rough and are bruised and maybe you didn't hurt at the beginning but still irritated the area or I could have had a bacteria on his fingers either way needs to be seen by a physician what if there's a bladder infection or another infection or a disease need to be seen by a doctor and not asking those questions on the internet I do hope an appointment is made and a physician treats immediately
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You could be just sore from stretching so far. Maybe he was fingering you too hard, but at the time you didn't realize it.  Sometimes I have experience an uncomfortable feeling like I have to pee after my husband had fingered me. Your bladder is on the other side of your vagina, so you could have just irritated that area.  If it doesn't go away within the next couple of days, then I would have your doctor check it out.  Just tell him about your bladder, you don't have to tell him your boyfriend used 4 fingers. Unless he asked you about it.  Check in a mirror, and see if you have any abrasions down there on your vagina. Best wishes to you.
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