I was a late virgin until 3 weeks ago when Ilost my virginity to a friend of mine. We known each other for 4 yrs btu we we were never a couple or bf/gf or dating for that matter. He consider me a friend so I consider him the same.
So three weeks ago I lost my virginity to him Im in my mid 40´s. I did bleed when we had sex and the guy was surprised I did, maybe he did nto expect a woman my age will bleed on her first time. I also tensed and tight my hips/thighs when we were on the missionary position so for him it was a bit hard to penetrate me for several times and I felt uncomfortable. We did it without protection though and I was a bit concerned also if he could had knocked me out at my late age. But I heard at 47 the chances of getting pregnant naturally are a little low, still I can get pregnant though. But I doubt I am pregnant 3 weeks after sex, as this week my period return. I also have irregular periods.
I have to say maybe I was not aroused much and I did nto have much foreplay I dont know if that had to do with me bleeding as I was not lubricated enough.
I want to know if I will bleed the next time if I have sex wth him again. I mean my hymen was already torn anway but I want to feel more relaxed the next time and I dotn want to bleed or feel uncomfortable or that it hurt a little when he penetrates me, he wotn expect me to bleed one more time, he could think the second time I should not bleed.
So will I bleed the next time and how can I be more relaxed so I wont feel any pain next time or at least little pain.