bleeding & burning(a little) after sex

[mexican2010chic]

ive been with a guy for 3 months now. im 17 about to be 18 in 3 months. we had sex for the first time and i hurt a smig after but i was fine. the second time he had sex it was a bit rougher. when we got done he took me home a little after we hung out some more. he texted me after he dropped me off and said he felt bad. and i asked him why and he told me cause he prolly made me bleed and to use the restroom. i went to the restroom and i did bleed but i told him not to worry because it didnt hurt. i bled for about a day and it was only a little. then another day it was just like a brown discharge. now when i pee it sort of burns with a bit of sharp pain. i cant do to the doctor because my mom would disown me. im not suppose to have sex til marriage. and i was doing a good job for almost 18 yrs. but he was different and it felt right with him. we keep out relationship a secret because he is older than me and my parents dont aprove of me having a relationship til out of high school even though they said they would accept him. i dont know what to do. i have to use the restroom about every 10 minutes and its only like a pee for a second and im done. im worried and dont know what to do. some one please help me. :/

[caca325]

You have a UTI, as what amberette said can you get a UTI from other things...not just sex. The antibiotic is really easy to its usually a pill for 5-10 days. Until you go to the doctor drink just water and cranberry juice-make sure it is 100% juice too. If you don't like the juice you can buy it in a pill form made by AZO. Stay away from soda and sugary stuff, and sometimes citrus can irritate the urethra. Just tell your mom that you think you want to go to the doctor for peeing...I'm sure she'll understand. All you'll have to do at your doc office is pee in a cup! So no worries, don't suffer when you don't have too!

[amberette]

When you have sex the first time, or even first few times, it is normal to spot a bit. It is normal as long as you are not bleeding a lot, like a period or more. The burning when you pee is more than likely a UTI (urinary tract infection) or bladder infection. This can be caused by bacteria entering the urethra while sex. These infections are common, and can be cured. You don't necessarily have to tell your mom that you had sex. You can get these infections from other things besides sex. Wiping from back to front can cause them, drinking a lot of carbonated soda can cause them, and many other things. If it continues, you may need some antibiotics. For now, you can try drinking cranberry juice...this is an old home rememdy and can help with some of the symptoms.