sorry, did not realize this was on doctors side, my bad.
first, you say you have dryness? try some long time foreplay, that can help you acheve some wetness, another lie on your bed naked, and just find some hot spots on yourself, see what gets you turned on, and take what you find out next time u have sex w/BF, kinda lead him to those spots. but try to rediscover yourself,you are older now and some things may have changed.