dry intercourse

[super diamond]

I am having a problem well I think it is a problem, most the time when my bf and I are having sex I am always dry, even right after he proforms oral sex and he gets ready to do his thing I get so dry and it hurts during and after, at first i didnt mind it but after some time he started to use his finger and after he does that it hurts and when he puts his penis in it hurts even worse, i dont want to not have sex with him but it as become a bad experience with us having sex over and over and I am still dry. What can I do to not be dry whenever I am having sex, I really would like to enjoy sex much more. ALso I know I am not the only one as a problem having a orgasm, can someone help me in finding a way to get a orgasm during intercourse, i want to enjoy it like everyone else.

[Sassy1472]

What does it mean when I am really turned on and really wet before sex and as my husband try's to enter me it's hard to get it in (like my vagina is too tight and its pulling skin in). After a couple of in and outs it feels good and I'm really turned on but then sometimes (the timing is always different) it starts hurting like its dry but when I try to feel if I am really dry but I am not I am still wet. What could cause this? We have tried using lube but it sometimes feels dry and burns.

I have never had this problem before even while my husband and I were dating, but then one night it happened and has almost ever since.

[Kellbells11]

I have the same problem with dryness! I love the KY warm.. It feels so good and not greasy! I just try to make it pleasurable for him too!! Like if I feel myself getting dry I slowly stop intercourse and go back to foreplay and go down on him for a few mins then I rub the KY warm on him with a lil hand job action going on so it feels good for him as well! We just make it part of sex every time.. Just relax and enjoy yourself trust me if he see's you enjoying your self it is a big turn on for him..

[jalynch1987]

I have the same issue and My boyfriend thinks I dont find him attractive that is not the case I just am so worried that im not pleaseing him or that I will get dry that I get dry we try lubes and they do work but he is convinced that i dont love him enough.  Please help! I dont want to lose him.  I also have an injured knee I just wish he would realize its not him but me.  

[bdeppe]

Chelssmiles121. I had my daughter and decided to get mirena as soon as i could, at my 6 week check up. ever since then i have had issues with dryness, vaginal discharge, lower desire for sex. i have looked online at other blog sites about the topic and have noticed that a lot of women have been having the sames issues while they were on mirena. I had beento he dctor about 6 times in a 2 year span because i had discharge so much i felt like i had an infection all the time.

turns out i was right, every time i went to my doctor she treated me for a regular bv (bacterial vaginosis, a simple bacterial infection) . the treatment is a gel that you insert for 5 days consecutively. i would feel relieved after treatment, but only for a week or so. i got so tired of it that i took the mirena out and decided that my body just doesn't agree with the mirena. since then things (for the most part ) have gotten better. sex drive is better, not so much discharge, and not so much dryness, however i still use lube every time.

i have tried KY, Uberlube http://www.****.com/  (this is really nice, and doesn't leave that sticky feeling. it has Vitamin E and once you're done, it will just soak into your skin and moisturize), Pink http://www.****.com/ (really nice and silky, not thick and sticky).those are the most i like.  

Maybe you should talk to your doctor about using a different brand of IUD or an alternate method altogether.

i'm also goin to be trying Replens ( http://www.****.com ) or possibly some kind of estrogen pill. hopefully that works. Good luck to you!

[snuckum_love]

Romanta therapy has a lube call revelation. All you need is a drop and it works great. Also if you began getting dry during sex after using it, it regenerates itself with moisture.  So to put it simply just have your boyfriend give you a little lick and its back on!

[Chelssmiles121]

I'm 20 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have a little boy together. And ever since I had ma little boy, and took the time to heal. I've had trouble getting/staying wet. I'm on Mirena (birth control). Been on it for 2 years. I also suffer with vaginal leaking. Anyone have any suggestions?