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1449488 tn?1284990420

help..my vagina is fat and puffy

my husband tells me that i have a fat private area. i am embarrased by that. i am always wondering why i am puffy like a blow fish rather than having a pretty flat perfect vagina.  my labia major are big and my clit is big too. nothing hangs out its all kept inside itself.
sometimes when i go to have sex i can be really wet but because my puffy vagina is big its hard for my partners penis to even get wet causing some pain.  i really dont like this.
am i the only one that has one of the fat vagina areas?
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13395141 tn?1429750268
I have a big vagina too. Only i dont have a big clit i have a big labia majora. It scares me cause when my feiends talk about getting theirs waxed the say i should try it. But im too ashamed to show anybody else it untill i have found my "soulmate" i wknder every day if there is a way to make it perfect like other people but i know there isnt. It hurts my self esteem when people make fun of me when i wear leggings sayong that "it looks like im trying to hide my secret ****"
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1159912 tn?1280588805
No, you're not. There's no such thing as a "normal" vagina. They come in all shapes and sizes. Yours is perfect for you because it's yours. If you have a big clit, you've been blessed! Easier to reach orgasm that way. Use some lube (no shame in that!) and have fun!
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Girrrll, I totally understand how you feel. I have the sameee typa girlfriend (my vag) I really don't like it I feel like it looks bad buuutttt my hunny loveeeess it. I get a kick outta wen were doin sex he says "man hunny I love your fat gf" makes me feel uncomfortable but if he loves it I guess all I can do is embraceee thee fatty kitttyy ;) haha meow!
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Avatar universal
Mine is big too, like you I am embarressed moreso not only did I carry my daughter low which made it fatter I also had a prolapse so there is a huge scar above it.  So you see a layer of fat, then the scar then the big fanny.  I hate it.
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7730350 tn?1393717180
I have a fat area down there too so you don't have to be ashamed girl! You have to be proud of it and feel so confortable with it. My boyfriend loves it and your husband should love yours too! Have fun and try not to care about that, cause it is not a problem. it's a bless
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134578 tn?1693250592
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There are guys out there who get a big hard one just thinking the term "fat vagina."  The fact that your husband has said that might not be a negative.  If it is, re-think the man, not your body.
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