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how can i know if i lost my virginity?????
so this may sound silly but you must help me , I'm 22 year old ... me and my boyfriend decided not to have sex now , because I wanted to wait more time until I lose my virginity (yes I don't want to do it now :\) ... we do make-out but without having "real sex" if you understand ..
yesterday we were in a middle of something and we lost control .. he was moving fast and then i felt that he did something we were not supposed to do .. I pushed him away fast and went fast to the bathroom where I found small amount of blood .... I think he teared my hymen..... but can this happen this quick ?! because I pushed him away immediately after i felt he's in that zone .... I'm really confused and i don't even know if it the blood was from a cut or if i lost my virginity although it was not decided and it was not the right place or the right time ...
how can i know for sure ? and how far is the hymen ? I mean how deep must his penis enter to tear the hymen ???? any heeeeeeeeelp ?????
yesterday we were in a middle of something and we lost control .. he was moving fast and then i felt that he did something we were not supposed to do .. I pushed him away fast and went fast to the bathroom where I found small amount of blood .... I think he teared my hymen..... but can this happen this quick ?! because I pushed him away immediately after i felt he's in that zone .... I'm really confused and i don't even know if it the blood was from a cut or if i lost my virginity although it was not decided and it was not the right place or the right time ...
how can i know for sure ? and how far is the hymen ? I mean how deep must his penis enter to tear the hymen ???? any heeeeeeeeelp ?????
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It is possible that the head of his penis tore some of the skin of your hymen. You might also already have a hymen that is torn, if you have been using tampons. (Per the previous poster, notice that using tampons and breaking your hymen tissue does not count as no longer being a virgin.) We don't live in medieval times where a young woman will be killed or no longer marriageable if she is not a virgin, please don't stress yourself over the fine-tuning of the definition. You can still count yourself a virgin or not.
ps -- But if you do want to stay a virgin, don't let yourself "get into the middle of something" where a penis is near your vagina. Your concerns about whether your virginity was lost with proper timing will seem to you to be small potatoes if you suddenly get faced with a pregnancy dilemma.
ps -- But if you do want to stay a virgin, don't let yourself "get into the middle of something" where a penis is near your vagina. Your concerns about whether your virginity was lost with proper timing will seem to you to be small potatoes if you suddenly get faced with a pregnancy dilemma.
If you look up the definition to virgin its a person that has never had sexual intercourse. It doesnt say anything about your cherry being popped. So if you feel like you had intercourse then no you are not a virgin anymore,
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