intercourse

[madii670000]

hello i am in a big problem i was virgin n i had first time intercourse with my husband but it dint bleed n he thinks m not virgin he is blamming me plz tell me what should i do no that he believes me any tesr any thing plz tell me

[keepitcrooshx]

I didn't bleed either. You are not alone. I'm sorry your husband doesn't believe you. If it's causing an issue, bring him to the doctors and tell the doctor that you didn't bleed, and I'm sure the doctor will say what the first comment says. Some women bleed, some don't.

[AnnieBrooke]

I am sorry he is being so ignorant.  I didn't bleed my first time either.  It used to be that the literature would say that a woman's hymen could be broken by horseback riding and other similar exercise.  I never rode a horse or did anything like  it, but still didn't have bleeding.  I think it is not uncommon.

[EndoCystaRN]

Hi. If your post is serious, you have to calmly explain to your husband that not all women bleed after intercourse for the first type. A membrane in the opening of the vagina called "hymen", sometimes tears during childhood when women do normal activities such as bicycle riding, horseback riding, or doing any active things really. Some women are born without a hymen altogether. Or sometimes during intercourse it could just stretch and not tear which causes no bleeding. I really hope that if your husband loves you he will believe that, and not focus on something so unimportant. I understand that in your culture maybe it's a really big deal. But if he married you, I really hope that he loves you enough to trust you. Otherwise this is a very bad start to a marriage. Get out of it if you don't feel safe!