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is something wrong...or completely normal
me and my boyfriend have been having sex since i was 15 he was my first and only. ive had friends that have said that on there first time they startin bleedin...on my first time i didnt..but recnetly like a week ago me and my boyfriend had sex. and i was bleeding.a friend told me he probaly just was doing it to rough or whatever. but i was wondering do anyone else thinks dats all it was.....me and him have been trying to have a baby since april of 2005 and still nothing yet! do anyone have any advice on dat also..thanks
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ok i agree a little with everyone,
first of all, everyone is different so we cannot judge that she has low self esteem or just wants attention,
people come from different backgrounds and just because modern society excpects women to choose careers before family, or for women to have children at a perticular age is not everyone's cup of tea. I think peoplle should learn from own experiences and not follow people just for the sake of following.
Some people think its important to go out and party and live life a little before settling down, but others dont feel the need for that.
Just because you have kids at 25 doesnt mean ur life as a mother will be neccessarily happier than a 19 yr old mother,
I do think that you have to consider if you want this baby for the right reasons thoguh,
good luck
ok i agree a little with everyone,
first of all, everyone is different so we cannot judge that she has low self esteem or just wants attention,
people come from different backgrounds and just because modern society excpects women to choose careers before family, or for women to have children at a perticular age is not everyone's cup of tea. I think peoplle should learn from own experiences and not follow people just for the sake of following.
Some people think its important to go out and party and live life a little before settling down, but others dont feel the need for that.
Just because you have kids at 25 doesnt mean ur life as a mother will be neccessarily happier than a 19 yr old mother,
I do think that you have to consider if you want this baby for the right reasons thoguh,
good luck
im not the partyin type!! and im in colledge but its homebound. and dis aint something i just woke up one day and said hey!! i want a baby..ive seen it all. da stuggles..financially..physically...and emotionally...and i still want a baby its all planed out im ready..i understand what you are trying to say..ive got a friend who struggles alot and she had her baby when she was 17..then i got a cousin who just had a baby she's 19....and she's doing just fine of course its gonan be hard at times...isnt everything!! im young but im not dumb..i know exactlly what im getting into! and you know its different strokes for different folks! and i'll put my child before anything or anyone!! thats a must!! and i've never been a selfish person..so dats no problem...but thanks for the advice...and im sorry things have been a rollercoaster for you..but ya know thats everybody..u gone have some good days and some bad days..but i know overall your baby is da best thing dat had happened to you..i know i was da best thing dat happened to my mother
I AM STAYING FAR AWAY FROM THIS ONE (even though i am going crazy with tons to say).
HI, I am 28 years old and had my daughter three months after I turned 21. She'll be 7 in a couple of weeks and just started first grade. I wanted a child young because I was emotionally unstable, had low self-esteem, lonely and wanted attention. It seemed glamourous to me. I had to put aside going to school for 5 years after she was born. I am now only able to take 2 classes at a time in college, which will take me about 4 years to complete my Associate Degree when normally it should only take 2 yrs!
I make 10.91/hour... (after 3 years of raises) working as an Early Childhood Teacher for Bright Horizons Family Solutions, the leading provider in employer-sponsored child care and one of Fortune Magazines Top Companies to work for. SOUNDS GOOD, huh? We charge $1,200 a month in day care. Can you afford that? My daughter comes to work with me every day. BUT...making $20,000 a year will get you NOWHERE! You can't even support yourself on that salary, without relying on OTHERS.
But, talking to a teenager who has their mind set on HAVING A BABY is worthless. Unfortunately, its a live and learn process. You're setting yourself up to live on Public Aid for the rest of your life without a major wake-up call. Gain some confidence!
I make 10.91/hour... (after 3 years of raises) working as an Early Childhood Teacher for Bright Horizons Family Solutions, the leading provider in employer-sponsored child care and one of Fortune Magazines Top Companies to work for. SOUNDS GOOD, huh? We charge $1,200 a month in day care. Can you afford that? My daughter comes to work with me every day. BUT...making $20,000 a year will get you NOWHERE! You can't even support yourself on that salary, without relying on OTHERS.
But, talking to a teenager who has their mind set on HAVING A BABY is worthless. Unfortunately, its a live and learn process. You're setting yourself up to live on Public Aid for the rest of your life without a major wake-up call. Gain some confidence!
Well, after reading your post it seems your prepared for everything and you have thought it through. So I have to say if that is what you want then I am happy for you. Yeah you will have some bad days, but mostly they will be good. Good luck to you!
I don't know about the bleeding part, but about having a baby...do you really want to...I mean are you ready at 19? I am 24 and I will have to admit it is a lot harder than I ever thought it would be and it puts a strain on your relationship for sure. So make sure you are good and ready before you go and make plans on having a baby. I watched kids growing up and so I thought I could handle it, but I was so wrong. There are times where I could literally pull my hair out. And are you financially ready? Babies are very expensive! Forumla & Diapers aren't cheap! So I just thought maybe you should think about it first, especially at 19. Live your life and do the things like party and go to college, b/c if you have a baby....they come first..ALWAYS!
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