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please help!!! my doc wont

I'm 24 and I've had 4 kids and I still don't have any boobs. I'm less than an a cup here and i believe i had more than this when i was a teenager. what can i do to make them grow? its beginning to make me feel less like a woman and its giving me a complex
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Why would you want bigger breasts? Is it to atracked a Man? Or do you want to be like everyone else? Let me tell you having big breasts are nice but SOME Woman have backhaces and other health problems because of their BIG breasts! You may also get unwanted attention from the Men. So my advice just take care of you and your babies and don't worry about having Big breasts. I have big breasts & it's not that big of deal to me! Oh the bigger you are the more the Bea costs!
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I am right there with you!
I am FLAT. I've had 3 kids. My youngest is almost 8 and though I am in shape my breasts are GONE. I have to wear a padded bra, and it has to be a certain kind to make it look like I even have anything!! I am an A but not even an A. :( So I know how you feel!
And if I were to gain weight, it goes to hips, belly and butt.
I think the only alternative is plastic surgery. I can't afford that, nor do I think I want it. If I were to ever get it, it would be only to a B cup. Just so I would look normal, and more balanced or whatever.

But don't fret. I try not to focus too much on it. My husband doesn't care and I shouldn't either. I never get in a bathing suit though! I am definitely self conscious of it but trying not to be. There are more important things to worry about. :)
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We always wish for what we didn't have.  I used to wish I had bigger breasts.  However, as women age, the ones that have to tote breasts around have a harder time.  After having 4 kids, they rarely have good tone anymore.  We need to realize there are different body types and each type has its good points and its fans.  When you get older, you realize there are a lot of men who love an athletic body type.  There are women who are envious of your body, believe it or not.  If you study models and look at how they dress, you will see how sexy they can dress for a flat body type because lots of them are flat.  Experiment with athletic clothing and working out.  There are weight exercises to work your pecs and give your upper torso a V shape.  I did those exercises, and worked out arms, back, legs, and abs, and all of a sudden I started to appreciate my body and dress right for it.  Hope you can do the same!  Unfortunately, breast implants can end up looking quite bad and you would want to hide your body then.  Instead, rock your youthful looking, streamlined look.  
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