which clit do you have?

[Tiffnoel]

ok so the other day my mom and i were discussing the vagina ( you know just one of those random girl talks) and the clit got brought up. she started to describe hers and as i was listening i realized mine was not like that. She described hers as a little penis, jokingly of course, but went on to say that hers sticks out of her labia, whereas mine is hidden so to speak.
Im just curious. are they supposed to be one way or the other? and does having a bigger clit that sticks out give more pleasure??

[Tiffnoel]

hahah yeah i could see why men would think that way lol.

[Ohbehave007]

We have a rule in my bed, he isn't allowed to *** until I do...how ever that may happen. ;). I have heard that is it sometimes hard for men to be the same sexually with there partner after a child is born. Something about seeing a child being born from the same place they liked to poke things in really creeps them out.  

[Tiffnoel]

haha to tell ya the truth i really dont get any stimulation from sex anymore. unless my fiancee is really really pounding me haha sorry to be so blunt but its the truth! it also has a lot to do with the fact that there is no fore play. :( my sex life since my baby has gone way down. but whatever i guess i will just have to satisfy my needs on my own lol.

[Ohbehave007]

I don't really get clitoral stimulation during sex. I don't think a lot of women do unless their partner is really grinding up in there.

[Tiffnoel]

I dont think you should be self consious about it. From what i can tell every womans "down there" is different.

[jackiee420]

I have the same question because I am self consious about thatarea. mine is not big but deffinately not small. Is it bad to be self consious about that?

[Tiffnoel]

thanks for your post! i was just curious. and the reason i asked is because i dont get a lot of stimulation and i was just wondering if the size of the clit has something to do with it.

[Ohbehave007]

I would say I have a medium clit...haha. I have slightly larger outer labia do to being overweight but when I become stimulated you can see it peeking out. But during normal circumstances it isn't tiny, but I don't have 1 inch of pure pleasure either (pulling from penis joke...). I would say any size of clit is normal, just like any size of labia (inner or outer). All lady areas are beautiful.

[bonelz1]

omg thats both normal i seen this one girl once rite and her clit looked abit like a penis but those are jus huge clits you can google this aswel and you will see , it jus depends becoz every one is different it doesnt matter if you have a big clit or small , but i think a bigger clit does give more pleasure lol and thats the only thing u missin out on but dont worry , its normal .