Oh lordy! I know exactly what you mean! I am not married but the man I have loved for 10 years now, when he doesn't shave for a few days, turns into his father! I hate the look. He sometimes even behaves like his father, which is just as bad, but with no shaving and then the behaviour, I too, want to either whack him across the head, or run screaming into the forest! I loathe his father and he loathes me, so it's a situation where I have to say, "Hey, go have a shave!" Then I can relax again!