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Should I throw himout?

His life is out of control - all he thinks about is how he can get more. He is either withdrawing or using too much. I put myself in the middle - when he buys them he gives them to me to help him control. Then he blames me for not giving him enough.

Everyone says he has to hit bottom before he changes. Where is the bottom?
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Things are better now. I can't say exactly what happened, but he finally realized how out of control he was. He has been going through a bad series of withdrawals, and he bought more last night because he is so tired of not sleeping, but at least he is way down. I am more hopeful, anyway.
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well if you continue to give/get your an enabler and that makes you part of his problem. Try and talk him into going to rehab, if that doesnt work then give him ultimatums if he wont. Ultimatly you may have to cut all ties for him to truly hit bottom.
Well wishes!
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