Sex Buddies now step siblings expecting child

[tazz51]

Well my Wife and I were married in June.  We were the "Brady Bunch" minus one.  She brought three kids into the marriage and I brought two.  My eldest daughter is 15 and her eldest son is 12.  Well we just found out while we were engaged, these two were having sex without our knowlege.  So now we find out that my daughter is now pregnant by him.  What do we do?  She wants to have the baby.  Do we permit these two to now live under the same roof or should we seperate them? As in going to live with their other parents. We are kind of "blown away" by this whole thing and are at witts end trying to figure out the best plan of action here.  

[Gaming__]

Dont make her adopt or abort she will resent you forever its her discion one of them at the very least needs to leave however possibly foster the child care for it tell shes of age look into maybe a ged and a full time job help her dont push her away

[Kimwarrior]

What happened I just saw the date

[Kimwarrior]

What happened I just saw the date

[Kimwarrior]

The Age is what the problem is here there are many people that have been friends for years and then their parents get married and then they become step-siblings nothing biological not blood-related that's not the problem the problem is they are way too young for both sex and a child. that needs to be stopped. They need boundaries

[wishforanswers]

What a truly awful situation. I know it sounds awful, but can you talk your daughter into abortion or adoption? This child will not have a happy future -- a 12 year old for a father that is his mother's step-brother? It's just not right. I wish you the best of luck. As far as separating them, I'm not sure if that would help or not. I think that both of them need to feel the weight of what they've done and somehow take responsibility. Good luck!