I am 13 and I wear pull ups daily, I pee in them and poop in them, I'm mentally fine (well, except for borderline personality disorder and anxiety), but I've been doing it since I was a baby but I have a fear of peeing in a toilet (I got forced to in school) and I'm also transgender so it's difficult for me to pee using "girl" bathrooms but it's completely natural to some kids!
Any progress? I don’t know the answer. I have an 11 year old with the exact problem. She has met with a pediatric urologist, and she checked out to be normal. We’ve also tried a potty watch, rewards/punishments, timed breaks, bedwetting alarm (but used it for daytime instead), waterproof underwear, a counselor, EVERYTHING we can think of. She doesn’t seem to care to if she wets herself. It’s so, so draining and confusing.!
if your child is eleven and doing this it may be she has a UTI and needs to see the doctor ..