Adult bodyrub

[Dawn1073]

Husband paid for adult bodyrub. I really need some men to talk to who have experienced this, to see if it either eases my mind or let's me know how worried I should be. List, and scared here, and very alone. Don't know how to deal with the hurt and thoughts running through my mind on how far this went in the session. Any men willing to talk please?

[BonzoDog]

In most such cases, it's a full-body massage but if the ad was in a sex-related section, then almost certainly he was offered a 'happy ending', meaning for an extra charge, she would stimulate him to orgasm by hand. I don't think it normally goes beyond that (oral, intercourse, etc.) because that's getting into actual prostitution territory & most of these services kind of at least pretend to be legitimate. Generally they don't allow the 'customer' to touch the 'therapist'. So it's kind of up to you - are you bothered by another woman giving your husband a hand job? I would think most wives would be! On the other hand, he most likley didn't do anything to her, probably just laid there & enjoyed the feeling. In my opinion, even if it was 'only' a hand job (they call it 'manual release'), that was still a violation of your marriage bond & trust.

[NOHARD]

Hi Dawn I think the best thing you can both do is sit down and talk it through, or its the end of your trust in the relationship, and the only way to clear your mind is either to carry on or sorry to say walk away.
Good luck

[Dawn1073]

How can you be sure he wouldn't of penetrated her? But mutual touch body rub anything goes except penetration? And from a mans point of view, do most men more or less sit back and just let the girl do her work, or would most men decide to get hands on and do their part the same as her beings they went for their selfish self? It is just crazy what something like this can do to ones head with thoughts when this kind of situation happens. Do these places just have one flat rate for every service offered, or do you specify when you get there what extra services you want and add more cost for each one. Sorry so many questions, but I do appreciate you talking to me.

[Dawn1073]

Thank you!

[hero65]

well if it is in the adult section of backpage.com i think that's already bad news .... how far will she go ? well the only thing i'm sure of is that he will not have sex with her... i mean he will not penetrate her with his penis other then that everything :S sorry

[lindahand]

I am so sorry your husband did this to you - completely unfair. It is cheating on you, and you deserve better than that.

[Gabe0060]

Why is your husband looking in those places for sexual gratification Instead of with you?

[Dawn1073]

It was a mutual touch bodyrub. An yes, I do believe that she offers extra services. It was in the adult section of backpage.com and she has posted a picture of her in lingerie. Just sorta curious what goes on in these sessions, and how far thes girls will go.

[Gabe0060]

I did an Incall with a girl from backpage a few times. She greeted me at her door in her underwear I paided and then she told me to get comfortable and left the room and came back in her birth day suit and a tray of oils. She was a petite spinner type body. She told me to lay on my stomach. I was trying hard to suppress my boner. Needless to say I couldn’t. She was cool and confident in her slender body and towards the end of the session she asked me to turn on my back and I was so hard. She started rubbing my chest, stomach, legs and then the inside of my legs. I came after she started to stroke me and now she give me head when I see her. So after a few visits it turns into a more sexual massage when she makes sure your not a nut.

[hero65]

a body rub is not something to be worried about it's just a way to relax but if he had an extra body rub involving sexual stuff than you should worry ...