Idk if we will last..

[2547]

So were together for a couple months then he moved away, we started seeing each other again once or twice a month, whenever we could. After about 3 months of that, I found out I was pregnant. With no hesitation he moved back, were together now. I'm almost 8mnths now nd I love him nd I'm pretty sure he loves me (he tells me over 10x a day, nd he's really sweet)  its his inner thoughts I'm concerned with. But we've been through so much just in this past year nd a half, theres trust issues, we argue alot over the same stuff, I just can't shake this feeling that this is it, our relationship won't move forward, ialways have this feeling that I'm not enough for him, I'm not who he wants me to be, or like he feels like he has to be with me now. But all our past issues make it hard for me to open up to him nd give him all my love. I'm jus real concerned because ive heard babies jus add more stress on relationships nd I want my baby to grow up with a family. I don't want to be selfish nd jus end it because I have more than myself to think about now. Idk if these feelings are intensified by hormones or if I'm jus moody, or if I have a major issue at hand?

[Nighthawk61]

I feel there is a lot you're not telling us, what has he said or did that makes you feel this way?  I just can't shake this feeling that this is it, our relationship won't move forward, always have this feeling that I'm not enough for him, I'm not who he wants me to be, or like he feels like he has to be with me now.

[Shelly Bullard]

Hello. Your fear is what is holding you back and holding your relationship back. If you don't open up and shower this man with your love, then you are right, the relationship might not work. If you let your fears from your past completely affect your experience now or in the future, then they will. But if you decide to be as committed in this relationship as you can be, and as dedicated to making it work now, then it will. The key to having a loving relationship is giving love. If you are holding love back, then it will create challenges in your relationship.