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How to safely squeeze your mans balls?

My husband has a ball busting fetish which means he loves it when I squeeze or hurt his balls. I don't understand it but it makes him happy so I do it. At least I did until I read this article about a woman who squeezed her man's balls so hard he died.

I squeeze his balls almost as hard as I can and keep doing it until my hands cramp up and get tired. I was terrified when I found out it could kill him. I've been worried about squeezing so hard they popped but he's always encouraged me to keep going or would let me know when he couldn't take it anymore so I've been able to trust his judgment. We also have a safe word so he can plead for mercy without me stopping, but that was just when I was worried about popping one.


After reading that death could be a side effect I wanted to find some safe ways to pleasure him without worrying that he'll die or have permanent damage. We do want to have kids at some point.

Does anyone know of any resources that might help easy my mind? Everything I've found has been mostly porn.
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Squeezing is safe, don't worry. The news about the Chinese man killed during an argument with a woman who allegedly squeezed his testicles till death is classified as urban legend. There were similar stories coming from remote villages in Africa.
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well yes many men have died from their wives angrily squeezing their sac. so don't do it till he is squealing in pain or passing out.
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There are ways you can satisfy his fetish without the danger of squeezing too hard or 'popping' them.  If it's the pain he's after, you can cause that without squeezing at all... just use your imagination.  You can also use things with a rough surface, like those defoliating bath gloves. - Blu
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I stumbled on to this after my vasectomy, and I love it I try to get my female sex partners to do it as much as possible, I’ve squeezed as hard as possible I even have a clamp thing ,as a black male it seems I’m all alone in this practice my friends think it’s weird or a white boy thing, yet I do it daily what is strange how it makes me feel it doesn’t arouse me sexually and I usually don’t get hard or I could lose my hard on though one time the lady I was with got me hard and proceeded to squeeze my balls and for once I came it was all encompassing I didn’t need or want sex for a week and yes I’m concerned about bursting my testicle the other concern is how quickly the pain leaves I mean as soon as pressure is gone so is pain I don’t understand that at all, there’s no residual pain ever !
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