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[baem1014]

According to my duedate in the conception calculator sex for getting pregnant would be between 8/23/13-8/28/13 I have been with the same person for a while but happened to sleep someone new on the 30th we used a condom what are the chances its the new guys?

[Elaine Brown, MD]

Hi!
If you were my patient, I would advise you that there IS a possibility that it is the new guy.  If you were having unprotected intercourse with your boyfriend around that same time, it is probably him.  I always recommend a DNA test.
Good luck!
Dr B

[baem1014]

Im not due the 30th im due the 21st

[KDavis21]

My due date its also May 30th which would put you at 22 weeks today. You conceived sept 2. It stays in you for up to 3 days. I honestly think you have no problem with this issue. No stressing no reason to be afraid.

[baem1014]

And my due date is may 21 I dont know how to figure out all of the concieved or ovulation dates to know if im ok or not

[baem1014]

Im just scared cuz u would be able to tell if its not his....I love the guy im with and im so scared its not his cuz I made a huge mistake and im scared to tell him and then everything be ok and end up ruining things anyways I asked the guy I had the one night with if he was positive there was no chance he said yea but I know that even if u use a condom theres still that chance .....I just dont know what to do

[KDavis21]

If your due date is May 30th then you conceived on the 2nd of sept. My last period was those exact dates. Now if there was a condom involved on the 30th you shouldn't have any concerns. You go off your last cycle dates and they will give you the conceived date that way. I am 22 weeks today and due May 30th. I didn't find out I was pregnant until I was already 13 weeks, cause I was getting out of the military. And found out my conceived date was sept 2.

[laynesmom101]

Well when she had the baby she was a little darker, but no one thought about it because the mother had a darker complection. The guy she had an affair with, heard about her being pregnant, like 2 days after the baby was home, he called wanting a test. The man she was with was REALLY upset. They had a test done it was the other guys.. After about 3 or 4 months they decided to stay together. It was hard forthem but they got through it. That is a tough situation to be in and if me or whoever was in that problem, I think maybe someone should say something before the baby gets here bc it could really hurt the both of you and bring the baby into a bad enviroment, bc he could leave... or he could choose to stay (if it's not his) but you can always have a test done before the baby get here. Don't ask me how they do it, I don't have a clue. Just by looking at what my cousin did, keeping it a secret(she didn't know who's it was) her man thought it was his the whole pregnancy... I was in the delivery room and he cried.. well we all did. You know those emotional moments;-) but yeah it was just a hard place to be in. It makes it worse if it stays a secret and then finds out later. I hope this helped. If I was in this situation, I think that's what I would do, can't say for sure bc I'm not, but I would hope that's what I do. Good luck with everything.  If you can keep from it, try not to stress and worry..

[firstbaby34]

How did everyone found out? Did she tell them or just by the way the baby looked...I have a friend in the same situation and scared and shoot

[laynesmom101]

Hey my cousin was with a person for years and broke up for a few days. She was with that guy and then went back to her old guy and nobody knew until the baby was born. It was the new guys baby. She slept with them on the same day. Needless to say it was a very hard time for both of them for a few months. He accepted it and then had another one with her old guy. It's possible.

[baem1014]

We did on the 30th it says I was ovulation on the 28th I think

[vannavanny]

Did tou have sex with the other guy in that Tim period? Those calculators are not 100% reliable. Calculate when you were ovulation and if it's near the time you ovulated within a 3 day period then its his baby if not then it's the others baby.

Hope that helps!